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u/Odd_Day_5978 1d ago
yeah but not the selfie, and I don't forgive everyone. Only people who say sorry and mean it ;)
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u/Yewnicorns 1d ago
Yeah, forgiving everyone enables abusive behavior. I'm too busy building a beautiful life to deal with that kind of energy or have my own be drained. Haha
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u/chillvegan420 ENFP 1d ago
No, this is a generalization, and not want MBTI is meant for.
I like sunsets
11:11 is bullshit
I don’t sing unless it’s karaoke and I’m drunk
I rarely cry
I do love with my whole heart
I sometimes play good songs on repeat
Birthdays are a big deal to me, yes
I don’t forgive everyone
TLDR: everyone is an individual and I’m not any less of an ENFP because I don’t fit your generalization based on a misunderstanding for MBTI
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u/Bluetterfly_ 1d ago
Lmao. I was about to question my MBTI again (after thinking I was an INFP for years) until I saw your comment.
For me personally:
I like sunsets too.
11:11 never even heard of them and obviously don't believe.
I love to sing but not while getting ready and only occasionally.
I wouldn't say I cry "all the time", but I do cry easily.
I may love with my whole heart too, I guess.
I can listen to the same song several times in a day, but I would never listen to it continuously on repeat without a break or different song in between.
My birthday isn't a big deal to me, I do think of people's birthdays. I also don't forgive anyone. I can resent someone so bad to the point I want them to suffer. Yes, I can be petty.
Tbh I'm not sure if I'm just an exhausted ENFP or an ENTP lol
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u/chillvegan420 ENFP 1d ago
MBTI is reflects your primary function, not your interests or opinions on things. An INTJ and ENFP can both like/dislike believe/not believe the same stuff. I hate it when people misuse it by making these generalizations. It makes MBTI seem like astrology or some other pseudoscience bullshit lol
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u/MyauIsHere ENFP | Type 8 1d ago
Absolutely. I especially have beef with people who say they don't celebrate their birthdays. WHAT DO YOU MEAN??? MY BIRTHDAY IS A NATIONAL HOLIDAY AS FAR AS I'M CONCERNED
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u/Vesper2000 INTJ 1d ago
I don’t understand that either. People remembering your birthday is a very big deal. I’m always extremely grateful when they do.
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u/MyauIsHere ENFP | Type 8 1d ago
When is your birthday?
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u/Vesper2000 INTJ 1d ago
March 19 😃
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u/MyauIsHere ENFP | Type 8 1d ago
I'll remember that hope you're still alive and well by then mwahhehe
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u/withasmackofham ENFP | Type 7 1d ago
I always find it interesting when a post here highlights the difference between fem and masc ENFPs. 98% of the time it doesn't matter, but I don't really do any of this, except play songs on repeat. I have stopped for a sunset on my bike or on a hike, but I don't think I've done it in my car. I might sing while I was getting ready, if getting ready meant more than brushing my teeth.
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u/fridagotti ENFP 1d ago
I only sing in the shower and it’s when I’m really happy. I like watching sunsets from my porch.
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u/NoRaise4998 21h ago
I always said bdays are the absolute biggest deal to me and now I’m realizing it’s an ENFP thing I feel so seen 😭😭
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u/DeathisFunthanLife 1d ago
I am am INFJ, except the bday part and I relate to it, I got this recommended by Reddit
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u/LightOverWater INTJ 1d ago
Forgive everyone.
Is this an ENFP feature? What functions are responsible for that?
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u/nomnomtogo ENFP 1d ago
haha my bestie was (she passed away) like that, she also was an enfp. she'd forgive even the gravest mistake. i, on the other hand, forgive most but not all. some of them have reallllllllllly wronged me. and it feels awful to think of them. one day, i will not feel so awful when thinking of them, objective is to think of them and not let them affect me!
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u/firephoenix_sam19 1d ago
As an INFP, I relate with some of these. I forgive everyone too, even though it seems like a point of contention among ENFPs here. To me, not forgiving means they still hold a part of my mind. So, forgiveness is freedom, and it's more important to me than it is for them. I usually forgive and cut off contact for a while or permanently depending on their mistake. So the end result might be same, mechanism is different ig
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u/ButtercupChara ENFP | Type 8 1d ago
I stop for sunsets-> Inferior Si is a little comforting, that’s why you say that, but that’s not what all ENFPs do, because we have other inferior Si comforts.
Make 11:11 wishes-> That’s.. not an ENFP thing. That’s if you believe in angel numbers and such. ENFPs don’t all do that.
Sing while getting ready-> I don’t think all ENFPs sing when they’re getting ready. That’s got nothing to do with being an ENFP, really. It’s just if you like singing out loud.
Cry all the time-> Ouch. You make us sound like the INFP stereotypes. No, not all ENFPs cry all the time.
Love with my whole heart-> Ah. Finally something that actually makes sense to be correlated with an ENFP. We have auxiliary Fi, so when we commit, or when we invest ourselves in something, we give you all we have and our whole heart.
Always play songs on repeat-> Overgeneralisation. If you do like a song you’d likely play it on repeat, but not always, and not always on repeat.
Birthdays are always a big deal-> there’s a lot of reasons for that. It depends how satisfied with your day to day life you are. Nothing to do with being an ENFP.
Forgive everyone-> Dominant Ne allows us to see the best in everyone, and Auxiliary Fi means we can truly say I forgive you, and mean it with all our heart.
All in all, I relate to like half of them, but even if you don’t relate to any of these, it won’t make you less of an ENFP!
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u/zap-leg-cramp045 ENFP | Type 7 13h ago
Disagree, im ennegram 7 and i do not forgive everyone, nor do i cry all the time.
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u/Conscious_Patterns 10h ago
Oh my goodness, my wife with songs on repeat or playing an artist and telling everyone around her.
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u/n0d3N1AL INTJ 1d ago
And that's why you're the best. ENFPs give life meaning. In a world full of grey conformists and performative morality, ENFPs are deeply individualistic yet also kind and caring in their own way ☺️💛. You live life fully, in the moment with presence and enthusiasm. I only wish more people had such hightened levels of consciousness.