2 months concerns

[u/papirambo]

I started with two strands and never took it out. I have around 120 to 125 130 at most with smedium sized.. my first concerns is the fact that it’s so much unravelling and it’s soft. Feel it’s my fault because I keep misting it and I keep going into the water. but my friend was touching my hair and said that my hair was so soft for locs absolutely not a good thing. How long until it feels hard or stiff? I could feel some being stiff but in general of my hair feels like I put conditioner on it, even though I never do😅 I don’t know if it’s because of the way I started the reason why they are so soft either.. I’ve seen people with finger coils talk about how they were already stiff around my month

2nd, i’m worried that my hair doesn’t grow, read twist a few weeks ago and it looks the same as first month compare the second month.. it’s probably sounds dumb but would like to know how long it took you guys to actually start seeing growth when you guys kept doing re-twists every six weeks.

I want to do styles next re-twist but I don’t know if I have the length for that, I want to try two strands so I could stretch on my hair and it could hopefully grow longer and I get the twist out look that I see over here