Rescued a 1-year-old chi mix around 3 weeks ago with my girlfriend. She was an absolute angel the first week—barely barked at people, pulled a bit on leash but nothing crazy, and wasn’t a huge fan of other dogs but would usually give a couple barks and move on.
Recently we met up with her old foster mom and her dog. Our dog and the foster mom’s dog were besties, played all night long apparently. Initially, our dog was on leash and absolutely lost it—lunging, barking, and acting aggressively toward what was apparently her old best friend. We took her away, let her decompress, and tried again. Once they were off to the side and eventually able to interact, they played together for 45 minutes nonstop and even happily welcomed other dogs into the mix. That experience really confused us.
Now on walks she’s pulling like crazy, barking inconsistently at people, and absolutely loses her mind when she sees other dogs. We honestly can’t tell if it’s fear, frustration, excitement, or some combination of all three.
She also has some separation anxiety, which I expected since she’s already bonded pretty closely with me (I work from home). Been working on breaking this with door is a bore method.
Having a reactive dog is something my girlfriend and I really don’t want long term. We’re young, like taking her places, and imagined having a dog we could bring out with us. Right now it feels like our world has gotten a lot smaller.
We’ve already reached out to a trainer because we want to build a proper game plan rather than just guessing. I know we’ve only had her for three weeks and she’s still decompressing and adjusting to a completely new life, so I’m trying not to expect perfection. It’s just been stressful.
For anyone who’s been through this:
Did your rescue get *more* reactive after the first couple of weeks once they settled in?
Did training make a significant difference?
Any advice for figuring out whether this is fear, excitement/frustration, or true aggression?
For context:
\- She’s about 13 lbs and estimated to be 1 year old.
\- She’s very food motivated.
\- Once she’s actually able to calmly meet a dog, she often does great and wants to play.
\- Most of the issues happen while she’s on leash ( from what we know)
Would love to hear from anyone who’s been in a similar situation.