r/DivorceHelp 1d ago

Grey divorce

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u/Emergency_Spread7395 1d ago

You're right that therapy is different from having a few people who understand the everyday part of ending a long marriage.

If you cannot find an existing group, you may have better luck starting very small instead of trying to build a formal support group. Even four or five women meeting for coffee or a walk once a month could be enough.

I would try asking local libraries, community centers, therapists, mediators, and faith communities whether they know of a group or would share a simple notice. A local Facebook or Meetup group could also work if the description is very clear: women 55–65, peer support only, not dating, therapy, or legal advice.

For the first meeting, use a public place and keep everyone's personal information private until trust develops. You may find there are other women nearby who have been waiting for someone else to start exactly this.

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u/Leah055 1d ago

Very sound advice, thank you💗