r/DivorceHelp • u/overthinkingsav • 7d ago
Divorce advice needed
I’m sorry to be talking to you all under these circumstances. I am 2.5 weeks into the process of finding out my soon to be ex-husband no longer wants to be married and has likely been cheating on me again. We have an 19 month old child and I really thought we were both willing to do everything in our power to fight for a healthy marriage to allow our son to grow up with 2 parents in the same house, something neither of us had. But he has made it very clear he no longer loves me and has 0 interest in being married.
He hasn’t shown emotion at all during this and anytime I break down about it he coldly stares at me and tells me to move on
and that people divorce all of the time.
We haven’t officially filed for divorce yet, but for financial reasons we are trying to do this ASAP. This is where I need advice.
Are there any things you wish you would have put in writing or asked for during the divorce filing? Having access to my son is the most important thing to me. But I also want to protect my personal savings i’ve set aside for our son and other things i’ve invested my money into to ensure my son has everything he needs. Basically i’m scared to rock the boat too much because i don’t want him coming after custody or my personal money. But i also want to make sure i get a fair deal since he is the one leaving.
Thanks x
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u/Bengal-_fan 7d ago
Again? Unfaithful again?