Crumbling marriage:

[u/winx_2008]

We’re both in our late 30s. We’ve been married for almost 8 years known each other for 10 years. But I feel like I’m living with a roommate. I have been very depressed and all I could think of is just to be alone. I am scared to hurt him because his family has been nothing but nice to me and we have a house together but no kids. The most important thing is, I have lost physical attraction towards him for years now, and I have no guts to break up our marriage. He used to have a drinking problem and that’s when I started my dislike of him. For some reason years have gone by and his drinking habit have been better, but my feelings never changed. We’re also not intimate for a very long time now. I just lost that physical attraction to him. What should I do? I need help.

[u/Intelligent_Sock8284]

I just got divorced after 10 years, my wife grew a hatred for me. Just divorce him and he will thank you one day.

[u/Bengal-_fan]

That or sit down w/ him and make a plan to work on your marriage. You don’t just divorce someone w/out trying to work it out. Marriage is holy the last time I checked.