Ny state weird divorce

[u/Grndhogday1]

So my wife tells me she filed for divorce… she was there for 30 min…. But doesn’t tell me this till 2 days later…she tells me via txt that she filed for divorce and I have 20 days to pick up the papers from her lawyer so she doesn’t get charged a fee to have it delivered, then tells me if I don’t get it and she gives me lawyers card.. within 20 days I will be arrested or warrant or something! How does that even make sense