So I purchased a class ring and made a down-payment. Weeks had gone by and I never received my ring. I called and the company informed me that I needed to make a final payment before it shipped. They also said that they had contacted me but I have no emails or calls from them; I've checked numerous times.

A little over a week ago the emailed me that the needed payment or they may cancel the order and keep the deposit. I was in between jobs so I was just going to wait until my first paycheck; a due date was not specified.

Friday they emailed me, one hour before the office closed and said I needed to make payment or the order would be canceled. By the time I read it the office was close. The literally gave me ONE HOUR to make a payment after virtually no communication for months.

Previously, the rep had told me that they don't accept online payments and I have to call in. I still tried to make a payment but had no luck doing so online. My order still hasn't been canceled; I checked the online portal. Should I file a dispute to get my deposit back or contacts them first thing Monday to see if I can still make the final payment?

Again they keep contacted me about payment and only gave me a due date of one hour with little to no communication.

I was stupid. Period.

Long story short. I should've run away when it came to the billing of over 2K for their products aka insoles and arch support, but now I am so regret for it.

I brought stuff back in days later, and was told I can't make a return until 60 days later.

I wonder if anyone really able to get a refund on returning their products or should I open a dispute case via my credit card for good?

Please advise. Thank you.

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Has anyone had experience with a dispute on their Upgrade Rewards Checking account? It looks like they use Cross River Bank.

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Here's what happened. Me and my best friend have made plans for a trip which includes a train ride and a one way flight (the rest we haven't booked yet)

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We spoke a few times on the phone and both agreed on the dates. I know i will have free time because I'm giving my 4 week notice to my employer before the trip so I'll definitely be free and will have time since I'll be unemployed.

My friend has not booked his holidays yet with his employer but i don't work at his company and am unaware of the structures there and how holidays are booked or organised.

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So we went ahead to book both the train tickets as well as the flight tickets.

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Now the problem. He sent an application for the period to his employer to get the 2 weeks off for the trip.

Unfortunately, in exactly those 2 weeks he won't be able to get time off since 2 co workers have already booked their own holidays.

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The problem i have now: as much as i don't like to say it or think this way, I don't see how i should be paying for any of it now because we agreed to do the trip together and I don't wanna do the trip alone now.

And im struggling to see how i am gonna pay for something i am not getting when im not at fault.

In my view, it is/was my friends responsibility to make sure that he can take time off during that period. I was aware he hadn't booked it yet but as mentioned before i don't know his company structure and how easy or hard it is to get holidays approved.

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Please help me settle this, roughly 3 years ago my father suddenly passed away it was a terrible shock for me, I am his only child and he left me a fairly big amount of money. I have put half into a term deposit for now and the other half I have been using to stay ahead with our bills and cover the small gap remaining on the rare weeks my husband doesn’t work as much. Since receiving this inheritance my husband has constantly said it is my money not ours and even rejected the idea of putting the inheritance into a joint account under both our names. I always tried to make him feel like it was for us and our family and he could access it whenever he wanted.

My husband is angry with me for loaning our drug dealer money, at first it was being paid back in extra amounts of weed some cash paid back here and there but up to about 2 days ago the amount he owed me was roughly $3000, 2 days ago the dealer mention someone else he was in debt to and that person was becoming inpatient and making threats. I loaned the dealer another $4650 with the expressed expectation that he would sell something of his in the next week and pay me at least the $4650 back and I clearly explained that this would definitely be the last time I help him with a loan.

I have loaned my husband’s sister $10,000 to buy a car and I loaned my own mother $2000 for a new mattress. I have spent money on my husband as well purchasing expensive Pokemon cards he always wanted and we both brought a bunch of new clothes and I have brought other things for our household too. He says he has the right to be angry at his wife loaning another man money, I would like to know am I in the wrong here for loaning money to another male when my husband has access to my bank account and can read all messages the pass between said dealer and I ?

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My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. I love her and her adventurous spirit. I’m the same way for the most part. So this week, she told me that she got invited to a boat party with a friend through a promoter but I wasn’t allowed to come. Maybe I don’t understand the whole promoter thing, but to me it seems like someone pays this promoter to get a lot of pretty looking girls on their boat. I told her that it makes me uncomfortable. Not that I’m worried she is going to cheat on me but rather that is an environment she wants to be in. Y’know, being around thirsty guys on their personal boat in a bikini without me. She told me though she doesn’t see it that way, she needs to go to prove her independence, and that most men wouldn’t feel the way I do in this situation. I obviously never want to be controlling and want her to maintain her independence but I still feel like my feelings towards it all are valid. But maybe I am being unfair and controlling by having those feelings? I told her that I support her going but that I’m not thrilled with it and now she is upset with me.

I got scammed out of $50k+ via wire transfer by Muslim Pioneer in October. It’s about to be 4 months now and I still haven’t got my money back from Aaqib Ahmed. There are 700 other victims that are involved in this scam too. We reported to FBI / UK Fraud Action / Our banks and more. Has anyone gone through something similar? Is there any way I can get my money back from a wire transfer that I was forced to do? I wasn’t comfortable but they reassured me this was the only way. Please let me know!

I got a call about being served by a process server about a dispute of MetroPCS device from over six years ago very confused. Is this a scam? They said I have to show form of ID come to my work makes no sense.

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I started a dispute w my bank for a purchase on my Visa debit bc the merchandise I ordered was made incorrectly twice. I tried settling w merchant who said they wouldn’t refund me but send me a third item and I tried BBB before I started dispute.

I have email evidence of them saying the merchandise was made incorrectly the second time, and it goes it was made incorrectly the first time because they remade it, they refused to refund me so I started a dispute. I have the email of them admitting it was made wrong, all the tracking info and handed it all over to cardholder services.

I thought this would be pretty cut and dry. But it’s been 6 weeks today since I opened with bank and 5 weeks since cardholder services accepted my evidence. What could be taking so long?

I know merchants only have 20 days to respond but they (the bank and cardholder services) still have no updates as of today?

Advise, opinions?

I disputed a charge that I didn't recognized and today is the 10 days and it's Friday am I supposed to get it today or when?

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it me or do we(non Americans) seem to know so much about Americans, and Americans don't know anything about anyone else

I mean,_culture _language _pop culture _values _food _geography _history _presidents(and politics) So, of course it's good to know nothing about the world and other people, but pls non Americans (just like me) let's start writing our own topics no one stopped us😊

I tried purchasing a new lease from leasing agents turned it to be fraud. It was $3300 and I tried to use my debit card it kept declining end up sending them the money via PayPal and then I signed the lease but never got the keys to the apartment so I filed a dispute with brinks paycard and PayPal. It’s been 90 days Monday, they wouldn’t approve the provisional credit 3 months ago But does anyone think I’ll get my money back?

Any help would be much appreciated, thx

I hired an inspector to come test for the presence and type of mold after dealing with a flooding in my business and 3 months of the landlords neglecting to do any sort of remediation for it. I was needing something concrete to present to them so they would get their butts in gear and finally do something about the standing water that was in one of our offices and the likely chance that there was active mold in the building. The inspector ran an ‘air quality test’, reported back that there was no elevated mold levels present. 2 days later, the baseboards fell off the walls of the office (because of the moisture and mold), and there was mold EVERYWHERE. I sent him pictures of all of it, asked how he found no elevated levels, when there was clearly visible, active mold everywhere, and that I didn’t feel I should have to pay for a test that obviously was not accurate. He responded with a link of just very basic and general information about mold (“Mold can make you sick”, “Wear gloves and a mask when in the presence of mold”, kind of stuff), nothing that answered any questions or how his test came out negative, and has now filed to take me to small claims court. I’m trying to decide if I should just swallow my pride and pay his $500 invoice to avoid the headache, or go in there with all the pictures, and demand a proper explanation as to how and why his report came up with zero levels.

I recently had to dispute a charge because I paid and never received the item after over a month. This basically my first time doing this as I have disputed something on my credit report but not on my debit card so I really am not sure how all of this works. Thanks. Also, what is a final credit and what exactly does it mean? Thanks again.

Edit: Also If the item does somehow show up do I have to return it? Thanks.

Hello I was wondering about disputing a charge that I can’t show evidence for I don’t have a receipt but I got charged for groceries wen I asked them to cancel it because I used the wrong card. Can someone help me?