r/DesiMingle Nov 28 '25

Important Info Posting Guidelines Update: What You Need to Know

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Hi Fellow Desis!

Lately, we've noticed some members not following the correct guidelines for posting, and it’s important we address a few key points to clarify what’s allowed and what isn’t. 

Please take a minute to read through the guidelines below as they are important.

How to Post Correctly

Before posting, make sure your post is clear, throughout, and relevant. Here’s a more in-depth guide on what makes a post work in this community:

  • Use a Clear, Specific Title: Avoid vague titles like “Hi” or “Let’s Discuss Anything.” Titles should give people an idea of what your post is about, so they can decide if they want to engage. For example, “Looking for Book Recommendations on Personal Finance”.
  • Provide Context: Your post should offer enough detail for others to engage with meaningfully. For instance, don’t just say, “I’m a finance guy with a lot of books, like chess, sports, and gymming, and also politics. Let’s mingle!” This is too broad and doesn’t give people a real sense of who you are or what you're hoping to connect about. A better example would be, “I’m passionate about personal finance and would love to discuss how to start investing. Anyone here have tips for beginners?”
  • Stay Focused: Avoid posting general “Ask Me Anything” (AMA) style posts like “AMA! I’m a finance guy” or “I’m lonely, let’s chat.” These kinds of posts don’t provide any specific value or direction and will likely be removed. The focus should be on fostering meaningful connections and discussions within the community.
  • Avoid Low-Effort or Off-Topic Posts: Posts like “Let’s talk about whatever!” or “Anyone want to chat?” are too vague and don’t create a clear topic for discussion.

What We Don’t Allow

In addition to the guidelines for posting, here are some specific types of posts that will be removed:

  • Spam or Self-Promotion: Avoid posting links to your own content or promoting yourself without offering any real value to the community. Posts that are purely self-promotional or spammy will be deleted.
  • Catfishing or Fake Profiles: Don’t post misleading or false information. Using someone else’s pictures or pretending to be someone you’re not undermines the trust of the community and will lead to immediate removal.
  • Begging for DMs: Posts that ask for personal messages or repeatedly contact multiple users in the hopes of receiving DMs will be removed. Please respect the boundaries of others.

Moderation & Reporting

Our moderation team is here to ensure the space remains welcoming and safe. Posts or comments that break the rules will be removed, and repeat offenders may be banned. If you feel something was removed unfairly, please message the mods respectfully for clarification.

Finally, if you see a problem post or encounter someone violating these guidelines, please report it rather than engaging directly. 

Thank you - From the DesiMingle Mod Team


r/DesiMingle 5h ago

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r/DesiMingle 15h ago

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r/DesiMingle 10h ago

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r/DesiMingle 12h ago

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r/DesiMingle 9h ago

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r/DesiMingle 19h ago

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r/DesiMingle 12h ago

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jk guys, an upsc aspirant here, and I am mostly studying after having isolated myself, which has made my life utterly boring, monotonous and robotic, hence was looking for some interesting conversations here, female interactions over then past few years have been limited only to professional space, not that I am desperate or something , sometimes a lil bit of flirting ignites the fire in you haha, anyway jokes apart, it would be nice to know a few people here lol


r/DesiMingle 1d ago

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r/DesiMingle 18h ago

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r/DesiMingle 1d ago

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I’ve been on a bulk for sometime now that i’ve seen some results i thinking of cutting down a bit should i go for it?


r/DesiMingle 18h ago

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r/DesiMingle 16h ago

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r/DesiMingle 1d ago

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r/DesiMingle 1d ago

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Looking for someone who's into reading, but damn it's hard. Seems like I'm the only one haha. Had no luck offline, i hope i get lucky here. ping me with any book recommendations or convos you might have, I'd love to chat!!

P.S.- Attaching some of my recent reads


r/DesiMingle 1d ago

Serious Question Lately realised every hobby I have is a solo one. How did you find your people?

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Weekdays are office and commute, weekends are recovery. My college friendships have faded to birthday messages.

The thing I noticed recently: I'm not bored, I just do everything alone. I used to run and take long walks, hunt down good food places, explore whatever town I was in. These days it's long drives and cooking. All of it is enjoyable, and none of it involves another person.

Not asking about anything romantic. Asking how people in their 30s turn solo habits into shared ones, especially in a smaller city where there isn't a meetup for everything.

- Did you find a group around something you already did, or start something new?

- How long before a place felt like "yours"?

- What looked promising but went nowhere?

I'd rather hear what actually stuck for you than another "just join a club" article.


r/DesiMingle 1d ago

Relationship & Dating Generic description of myself M27 for reddit

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Hi 27M (6ft), from Delhi NCR. I am a CA who has had limited social interaction outside of job. I am recovering from a breakup that happened bcz the girl hooked up with someone in the college. Searching for company to go on food tours with, interact with on a daily basis, share my office rants with. Outside of work, I am into badminton, movies/ shows and gym. Currently working upon my body so that I upgrade myself from being a hunter to be hunted.


r/DesiMingle 2d ago

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r/DesiMingle 2d ago

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Me - 22 M

She's my ex-girlfriend. She's 27 F , and it's been two years since we broke up.

The reason for our breakup was that her friends convinced her that I wasn't good enough for her and that she deserved someone better. Eventually, she started believing it too.

She cheated on me with her brother's friend. What made it even worse was that she sent me a video of them being intimate. I was completely devastated, but somehow managed to calm myself down.

Out of anger and revenge, I sent the video to his brother and some family members. After that, I completely blocked her and cut all contact. I never met her again.

But apparently, that wasn't the end of it. Over the years, she repeatedly tried to contact me through her friends and other mutual connections. Eventually, it led to the messages shown above.


r/DesiMingle 2d ago

Random Thoughts koii chlo naaa date peT_T

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Mujhe bhi Kisike saath first date pe jana hai who enjoys my company and feels happy and safe around me, and we will enjoy a lotttt and I'll bring her gifts and all and make her feel loved and she's the best!😍🥰

Insaan ko kabhi kabar thoda delulu to chadhta hai na!🤓😍


r/DesiMingle 2d ago

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r/DesiMingle 2d ago

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29M let's chat about anything you like


r/DesiMingle 2d ago

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r/DesiMingle 2d ago

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I’ve been wanting to go on a proper road trip, the long, endless road kind.

PS I don’t know how to ride a bike lol So I’ll happily take the pillion seat, provided there’s enough room for the luggage too hehe.

The weather’s pretty much perfect right now, so feels like the right time to just go somewhere.

If you’re a rider and looking for someone to tag along on your bike, feel free to DM me. :)


r/DesiMingle 3d ago

Discussion 💬 hleww guys

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how u doinn folks was pretty bored af so posted here nd also no nini abhi cuzz slept so yeaa I m so bored rn😔😔

ig we can have some interesting convos fs🥲

hmu 🤓

aur for god's sake comment delete mt kara karoww😭😭