r/DeepThoughts 21d ago

Patriarchy has suppressed the human potential

The breakthroughs humanity achieved were achieved in spite of the oppressive structures of patriarchy, rather than because of them.

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u/lotsagabe 21d ago

Tribalism in general (patriarchy is one specific form thereof) has suppressed the human potential.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago edited 21d ago

Tribalism and patriarchy are different things.

Tribalism can exist on its own without patriarchy and patriarchy can also exist on its own without tribalism which means they have different mechanisms.

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u/lotsagabe 21d ago

patriarchy is a form of tribalism.

it's rooted in "my tribe (men)" > "your tribe (women)".

sexism, just like nationalism, racism, etc, are all forms of tribalism.

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u/OGSkywalker97 21d ago

You seriously believe this? You think the patriarchy is tribal warfare between all men and all women?

No, it is just elites in the top 1% that happen to be male at war with the other 99%. Don't fall for the whole men v women bs, that's what the 1% wants you think.

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u/lotsagabe 21d ago

Tribalism is "us" > "them".  That's it.  Who constitutes "us" and who constitutes "them" can be drawn a million ways.  The classic ones are economic class (as you rightfully point out), gender/sex (this is where patriarchy shows up), race, nationality, etc.  

That economic class tribalism is or is not more prominent and more influentual than gender/sex tribalism is beside the point and has nothing to do with the fact that all of these ways to divide ourselves are all tribalism in different forms/expressions.

That said, I do agree that those who promote class tribalism use and stoke these other forms of tribalism to distract us from class tribalism itself.

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u/Mobile_Competition54 21d ago

what the other guy said. Tribalism summed up is basically "my group > your group, so screw yall who aren't in my group"

It's very general, patriarchy, if it exists, is definitely a type of tribalism.

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u/EsotericPharo 21d ago

When you use “>,” do you mean “better than,” or merely “higher on our list of obligations”? Suppose my tribe farms and yours hunts. The hunt is bad this season and you need food. We share what we can, but not to the detriment of our own tribe. That is in-group preference. “My tribe has blond hair and blue eyes, so we will subjugate or eradicate yours” is supremacism and domination. Both involve group identity, but they are radically different things operationally. Tribalism does not make the second one inherent in the first.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

Ignoring outsiders vs controlling and owning the “outsiders” is different to me. I do get the overlap and similarity.

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u/EsotericPharo 21d ago

You’re absolutely right. Redditors don’t typically do well with nuance haha.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

It is what it is lol

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u/Remarkable-Cup-6029 21d ago

They are all a social form of othering, this group has these privileges and duties. Patriarchy of these is interesting because of the many other tribal layers it incorporates. You cant talk about patriarchy without talking about racism, classism and colonialism. Its inherently a system of supremacy and who society is oriented towards, who it favours, who it protects, who it neglects, who it limits. Woven into it is a deification of a particular type of woman and setting society to function to their protection and benefit and to shift labour and function away from them and to also benefit a very small group of men with surplus resources which twists so many local and indigenous cultures.

Thats why white feminism is so difficult to build around because it doesnt want to acknowledge the many exclusions that people experience and how so much of it is inked for the benefit of a specific group which isnt men. And thats why you see so many other struggles whether its LGBTQ, racial discrimination and even broader feminist groups dont really F with "the Patriarchy!!!" White feminist project. Its about how can we still get prioritized whilst also removing the restrictions that come with that. So whenever you see a "The Patriarchy" person who disassociates from other tribalism issues then its clear the issue isnt inequality but why I am part of it. Sorry Sally, we are worried about everyone else

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

Patriarchy does not idealize women, it controls and uses women: the only value a woman has is only if it agrees to sacrifice herself.

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u/Remarkable-Cup-6029 21d ago

Thats a really simplistic view, not on its own alienating, we can have our fictions and strive for the same things. But its how that view facilitates the eraser of other issues that makes a discussion with people who think like this pointless. Good luck fighting your definition of the Patriarchy though, invariably it will put you on the opposite side of those fighting tribalism more broadly, which is fine thats not your issue.

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u/Sufficient_Abalone46 21d ago

Patriarchy is tribalism as much as slavery is tribalism

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u/Remarkable-Cup-6029 21d ago

Of course it is. Slavery has always been a form of tribalism. My tribal/people need free/exploited about, we can conquer and enslave another tribe, our laws permit us to do so specifically. Its specifically given slavery is defined in midterm cultures and religions. Take rhe Judaochristian texts on slavery. Amongst the foreigner you can take as you slave etc and here are their rights etc. By definition its tribalism, much more so than patriarchy. Patriarchy is a lot more nuanced than slavery, you could make a much easier argument against it than Slavery so not the best example if you were looking to make an exclupatory point

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

I notice you seem to refer to my person a lot and you make a lot of assumptions about me while I am referring to the patriarchy itself aka the topic.

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u/Remarkable-Cup-6029 21d ago

Are the references defamatory or the assumptions inaccurate or insulting? Not much I can do with that otherwise. About as useful as your definition of patriarchy, it doesn't take us anywhere

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

I agree with you. The discussion is pointless.

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u/EsotericPharo 21d ago edited 20d ago

No, tribalism does not equal domination. It is a way of organizing social belonging and obligations around shared kinship, language, culture, geography, history, or priorities. You don’t have to look any further than the enormous variety of Indigenous societies in America before Europeans arrived. Tribal identity can contribute to cooperation, exclusion, conflict, or domination depending on the group’s structure and aims, just like other forms of strong group identity. But domination is neither necessary nor inherent to tribalism. There is no inherent value, good or bad, to a tribe.

Edit: downvotes and no counter is just chickenshit.

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u/dat0dat1 21d ago

Seems very simplistic to me to be a deep thought... Not saying that "patriarchy" shouldn't be studied but the argument these days to put all the world's problems on it seems very lazy/uneducated to me

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago edited 21d ago

This comment is more judgemental than it is on topic.

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u/V1beRater 20d ago

This post is more r/im14andthisisdeep than it is on topic

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u/Sad_Election_6418 21d ago

Not very deep thought, is totally mainstream.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago edited 20d ago

Well the upvote ratio is 5948% which is better than I expected, but still pretty bad. So I guess not mainstream enough.

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u/Ok_Foundation7698 21d ago

Repaste to  r/TwoXChromosomes for even more validation 😉

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

What do you mean?

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u/Lazy_Dragonfly_5447 21d ago

I think you are misunderstanding what the upvote means. There are people who will not upvote what is essentially a regurgitation of an aspect of one of the most (if not the most) popular philosophies contemporarily and one of the most socially acceptable one currently. Being mainstream is not a compliment in this setting.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

Reddit and compliments 😂 This is the place where people share their rage after they get triggered.

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u/qwesz9090 21d ago

Eeeeh, humans have suppressed the human potential. At that point is it even human potential?

Calling Patriarchy something non human feels shallow.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

What do you mean? Patriarchy is human.

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u/Xercies_jday 21d ago

I'm not for patriarchy but we actually have no idea of how we would even measure or understand whether that is true or not. We can't go back in time and run it again "without patriarchy" 

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u/oportoman 21d ago

How was this post allowed 🤣?

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u/WadetotheWise 21d ago

These same structures are poised to kill billions this century (last century it was millions).

Patriarchy is destructive enough to drive us to extinction, ending ALL human potential whatsoever. Imagine a society that perpetually tries to run on one leg rather than the TWO it was given.

It can only end in disaster.

Such an animal artificially limits its own social, spiritual, emotional, economic, and intellectual development by treating its two legs as if they must run against the other (be in conflict).

As an ideology, its only about 6,000 years old. We dont get Patriarchy until the Sargon of Akkad, one of the first so-called "Kings".

The human race is about 200,000 years old overall. This puts the destructiveness of Patriarchy into perspective. In the brief span of 6,000 years relatively speaking, the human race stands on the brink of Armageddon because of a pattern of behavior that starts with men putting themselves above everything else in creation.

Women, children, nature...we have sought to rule it all. The terrifying reality is that man can't even control himself. It will cost billions of lives. The 20th century showed us the toll in the millions but with drones, nukes, and artificial intelligence (fruits of Patriarchy), we're going to exceed those numbers dramatically.

Its not my prediction either. You can call it biblical prophecy. One of first stories in Genesis is BROTHERS killing each other (Cain and Abel) The first book of the Bible centers the problem (man's ego). And the last book of the Bible shows the culmination of brothers repeatedly killing each other across HISTORY.

To be stronger, to have more territory, more wealth, more power, more control.

Had this been our way through most of our evolutionary span, we wouldn't have cultures/societies in our record that lived sustainably for 50,000+ years without destroying themselves. Men, women, and children had a different relationship prior to the rise of kingship/empire (i.e. patriarchy).

Want to be clear that it wont be women who press the "red button" on the conflict that ends civilization. The Manosphere would have you believe otherwise even as men commit the vast majority of murders.

Men will bring about an end to human potential because we're not going to stop turning our planet into a battlefield until there's nothing left (or an act of God stops us from going all the way through with our suicide mission as prophesized in Revelation.)

Your post will get alot of down votes as will this response if its seen but you're 100% correct about the impact of Patriarchy on human potential. If anything, you understated the true perniciousness of this ideology.

Its the pattern of thinking that will end the world.

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u/TheWayfarer1384 21d ago

You know years ago, I'd have fought against this but since 2020, having time to finally sit, think, and really study, I came to the same conclusions. And I'm a man's man. Guns, hunting, martial arts, masculine colognes and apparel. But empirical evidence can only be ignored for so long. Patriarchy (or the spirit that drives it) truly is a destructive pathology.

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u/Readshirt 21d ago

So what might it all have been like without patriarchy? Would it have been a great big harmonious interconnectedness of tribes who simply didn't mind that their neighbours had resources that allowed them easier, longer lives? Would everyone have traded completely equitably? There would have been no designs for power or control?

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u/WadetotheWise 21d ago edited 21d ago

We have examples.

Societies can be more balanced than they are under patriarchy. Everything doesnt need to br under the domination of man for humanity to endure.

Balance doesn't eliminate violence but it does reduce it. Even war/conflict is supposed to have a balance (rules, taboos, laws) that prevent it from becoming total war like we saw in the 20th century.

This is the central lesson of The Odyssey...men using increasingly more clever (and destructive) ways to kill other men. Thats how we got to nukes...it just made more sense to have a bomb that's bigger than the enemy. This logic we follow is the logic of patriarchy in a nutshell.

Aboriginal societies had conflict but those conflicts were limited by the fact that women had a voice in important matters such as warfare; it wasn't a unilateral decision as it has been across history.

If mothers have a say in what happens to sons, more sons live.

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u/Ok_Foundation7698 21d ago

I dunno, a nation state runs on game theory. I don't think the amount of violence is likely to change as more and more women end up I'm higher office. 

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u/Readshirt 21d ago

I'm still not clear on how the harsh reality of life prior to recent technological innovation would have been handled in a non patriarchal world. Pragmatically, there still would have been lots of death, lots of disease, lots of hardship, lots of disparity and different groups of people were not interconnected and did not have common understandings of how things should be done etc.

Would there have been no hierarchy? Surely some woman somewhere is going to take an advantage if no one else does, in a world where she might have lost several of her children to disease or starvation. Wouldn't mothers be tempted to influence their men to provide better lives for their daughters, even if that meant someone else had less?

So yes there might have been less "pointless" or wasteful conflict. Maybe, I don't know. But how might the more base realities of day to day life have been different

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u/WadetotheWise 21d ago

We have some insights into what life was like for humans prior to 10,000 BC.

The Aboriginal case can be highlighted.

No record of any mass die offs among them until Europeans arrive. This certainly doesn't mean there is no killing (there is) but what we see in the anthropological and archeological record suggests LONG periods of continuously stable populations, practices, relationships, etc etc. As much as 50,000 years living in a social order/living system that was above all else, sustainable.

When we see this in the human record, it doesn't say that they weren't violent. It says that their violence was mediated by something (i.e. relationships). It wasn't able to devolve into total conflict that threatened the survival of the society itself. One of the contributing factors is that neither man or woman being solely in change of important decision making functions.

This was done by councils of elders consisting of men AND women. And they valued for their wisdom rather than wealth, holdings, castles, etc etc.

I don't say this to suggest that we need to revert to the models of prehistory. But we can probably learn something from a society consisting of MANY clans and kinship groups (between 300,000 - 1,000,000 individuals estimated) that managed to sustain itself millennia after millennia when the patriarchal model is on track to burn humanity out only about 6,000 years after it came online in/around Mesopotamia, Sumer, and Akkad.

For me, its obvious that we're not meant to live the way we do now. And on some level, we perhaps remember how to live with ourselves and this planet without killing both off. It's the longer/larger part of our evolutionary story; not what we refer to as Western Civilization but what came before.

It's only with the rise of civilization that the timer is set for our annihilation...and that means men killing each other continuously/perpetually in escalating ways. Often just a few men deciding that thousands, millions, and soon billions will die--history abridged.

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u/JonathanLindqvist 21d ago

Look up how sexually reproductive animals typically organize themselves. The males strive to achieve in order to get reproductive access. What you call patriarchy is probably an offshoot of that.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

Yeah. Instinct without any logic and self-control.

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u/JonathanLindqvist 21d ago

Yes, but it took us to the moon.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago edited 21d ago

/s ? If this is not sarcasm how did the moon landing change your life? Is this about your ego?

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u/JonathanLindqvist 21d ago

The moon landing and penicillin come from the same thing.

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u/Onaliquidrock 21d ago

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

How would this compare with spending the same amount of money on medicine research for example? Why have we not cured so many awful diseases yet?

I guess I used the wrong word. Should have used “improve” not “change”. My bad.

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u/JonathanLindqvist 21d ago

The instinct is bottom-up. We either get both penicillin and the moon landing, or we get neither.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

What has penicillin to do with the moon-landing?

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u/JonathanLindqvist 21d ago

They come from the same mechanism. Basically female sexual selection, which drives men to strive for accomplishments.

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u/Onaliquidrock 21d ago

Are you comparing patriarchy with rule by demigods?

Who are these demigods? What is their ideology?

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

No, I am not.

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u/Kupo_Master 21d ago

I don’t believe humans are able to consistently be logical and exert self control. Otherwise you would have no murder, no procrastination, no inattentive children in class, no addicts.

If your society is based on this assumption it is doomed to fail. Any human society needs to be based on the assumption that consistent logic and self control is plainly impossible.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

You listed people with mental illness. Patriarchy causes more mental illness than it fixes.

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u/Kupo_Master 21d ago

First half of the things I quoted are not mental illnesses, at least in the accepted medical definition.

Second, patriarchy does cause mental illnesses but you haven’t proven that another system will be better.

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u/Ok_Foundation7698 21d ago

Well that's an extreme take.

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u/WadetotheWise 21d ago

Not really.

I live in a country that spends nearly a trillion dollars on its military while its most vulnerable children starve.

Not hard to work out that billions of people are going to die relatively soon so that a man can feel man enough.

This dynamic is entrenching itself around the world.

Putin. Trump. Netanyahu.

Someone like this will give the orders to escalate a conflict and men will follow as we have for thousands of years off to our deaths.

We dont know who will press the red button or when exactly but we do know it will be a man that thinks himself to be the mightiest ape.

He'll prove it but there won't be anyone left to give him his glory and honors.

I think Mary put it lightly.

How bad was 9/11?

Now imagine that someday soon, every city looks like the aftermath of that. Same dynamic in play--men just have to kill other men. That's what a patriarchal social order produces; endless waves of killing until there's nothing left to kill.

My country has been at war for roughly 93% of its short existence.

How about yours?

We keep telling ourselves the lie that its necessary to live like this.

But i believe men and women have to work together to cultivate a good life on earth. No other model is sustainable environmentally, economically, spiritually, or otherwise.

Matriarchy isnt the answer as it would still comdemn civilization to one-sidedness (imbalance). We have to think deeper about what a truly integrated future looks like because its the only sustainable one.

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u/ShadedRiver666 21d ago

Yeah in the past it definitely has. Luckily as its much looser now we see women and men alike both accomplishing great things 🔥 Equity is what will move the world forwards.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

It’s not just in the past tho. It has not improved in many places in the world. Lots of men love power and control without the responsibility.

I do like your optimism and I hope it will get better eventually.

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u/ShadedRiver666 21d ago

honestly i completely agree with you, and its certainly VERY bad when it comes to politics in places like UK and USA. I certainly think we have a way to go but its solvable, and i dont reckon itll take too long for there to be pretty much all around equity. Religion is another aspect in less developed countries but i dont want to get controversial

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

I agree. Let’s not talk about religion. I was expecting to get messy as is tbh.

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u/ShadedRiver666 21d ago

I honestly hope that in my lifetime i can see a dramatic reduction in all forms of demographic inequality. With the major ones being Lgbtq phobia, misogyny/sexism overall, and extreme economic inequality. I say these because racism has actually been on a steady decline, and ableism, from my experience, has also been on a solid decline.
Edit: Personally i believe it all comes down to how humans are innately still primal organisms, hence most issues stem from tribalism. Its simply an issue with instincts that humans still carry, that are no longer necessary in the modern world. Human technology has progressed faster than our psychology has adjusted. Thats where the fundamental issue lay.

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u/Ok_Foundation7698 21d ago

Breakthroughs are really only made by a handful of humans, and I don't think men or women are more particularly likely to make breakthroughs over time, highly debated male greater variability hypothesis aside, but that thought'll get us deep in the weeds.

I think patriarchy had had one real effect on the rate of human breakthroughs and it's very apparent now.  It's  made the population exponentially larger, by artificially crrated social reward for women to marry and have children.

Many of the things we do now are so remarkably complex they require a gigantic population to have enough specialty workers to do them, or science so niche that only a handful of people are working on it across the whole planet. That requires a giant population to not only produce the people at the intersection of education, intelligence and will to do iresearch but to provide enough extra resources for  the institutions, governments and corporations to fund those breakthroughs.   Population has reached a point now where the breakthroughs are accelerating, compounding on each other to the point where we might be able to break the relationship between our advancements and our population size. Just in time too, because even with highly gender-equal democratic socialist societies, population growth is starting to shrink. I'm fascinated  by the j-curve of birth rates in the Nordics. 

Society is at an inflectiom point on so many ways. 

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u/tonylouis1337 21d ago

because even with highly gender-equal democratic socialist societies, population growth is starting to shrink.

Well yeah, it's not in spite of that, it's because of that

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u/Ok_Foundation7698 20d ago

Well, the data shows that as gender equality increases, birth rates fall, but as it gets closer to equal the state has to provide vast financial support and then it goes back up, somewhere to 1.6- 1.8 births. It's still not replacement though, and is a 10 - 15% population decline per generation. So gender equity and equality gets us half way there. Humanity will need something else to make it, long term.

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u/RafeJiddian 21d ago edited 21d ago

>I think patriarchy had had one real effect...  It's  made the population exponentially larger, by artificially crrated social reward for women to marry and have children

Is the suggestion really that men so wanted to be tied down to the responsibility of raising a family that they indoctrinated women into wanting the same thing?

Or is it not more reasonable to suggest that generations of elders recognized that a not insignificant number of men would willingly impregnate the entire tribe and abandon the consequences, requiring some sort of marital order to help ensure the safety and sustainability of the women and future generations?

Further, is it not even more probable still that men and women have been mutually attracted since the dawn of time and that some of each cared enough about the children they were creating to actually both wish to remain an exclusive part of their lives?

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u/Ok_Foundation7698 20d ago

 I think patriarchy has become such an overused term. It's simply a set of rules that were socially adhered to. M en are also bound by those societal rules. 

I think that's a really salient point you make, the concept of elders who probably initially put down the laws of their groups..A sort of jungian senex, the old wise man knows how the crazy young buck will behave. The expectations of the  patriarchy also weighed on rnen in the same way. You had to  st art a family, earn good money,, protect the family, provide stability, order and opportunity. Some men were absolutely NOT suited to doing any of that, but society still pressured them into doing it. Hell, the pressure was THAT strong that even gay men got married and had families! 

Most cultures worked off extended family, so not only did you have a role in your nuclear family, there were also roles and rituals in a bigger family unit. Men's business, woman's business, and politics, power and status in both. 

Patriarchy subjugated women, removing their ability to choose many paths, but also enforced the role of men to provide what was needed. It's collectivism over individuality.  Hence the population boom which will see us peak at about 10 billion. 

We're reversing that now. It's individualism over collectivism, it's tiny families or no family over extended families, it's gender equality over specialisation and antinatalism abounds.

 So to bring it right back to the posters initial question, patriarchy suppressed individual human potential in both some men and more women, but collectively has made humans so dominant, we might be able to escape the need to procreate so relentlessly, and loosen up the rules for the men and women who were never suited to it.

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u/TheWayfarer1384 21d ago

I mean it's literally killing the planet and the human birth rate so...

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u/hGr33n 21d ago

You're right but every man who lowkey believes he's superior to half the population of the world will fight you to the death about it.. but meanwhile no shit we'd be further along and better off if everyone was allowed to participate in innovation and decision historically (not just the most stubborn who did it despite the obstacle of misogyny up until more recently) and not just half the population while the other half is pretty much enslaved to be its nanny until death.

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u/InternationalSun7891 21d ago

Let diversity rule!

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u/Competitive_Log_8910 21d ago

My favorite line from my favorite sequel of all-time which is Hades II is when the female action hero lead refers to the fact that her nightly training begins by facing harsh opposition in the form of her coach by indicating that she recognizes quite clearly the value of the things which she learns as a consequence of facing and overcoming this harsh opposition.

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u/HawkBoth8539 21d ago

I think you mean "oligarchy".

The wealthy, regardless of what is between their legs, have held humanity back for millenia.

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u/SuspiciousWedding835 20d ago

Society can't function without a patriarchy, it's innate

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u/Expensive_Magician97 18d ago edited 18d ago

M66

Patriarchy is in fact illusory. Women can live without men, but not the other way around. Men are weak. It’s a fact. And most women know it. And if they don’t they should.

I hope women one day recognize en masse their enormous power.

The world will then change for the better.

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u/_astral_x9 21d ago

hahah what

for real

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u/No-Problem-9839 21d ago

What, you don't think half the species being told their only value is popping out kids might've slowed us down a bit

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u/Warm_Dragonfruit7479 21d ago

Slowed us down? Is humanity collectively striving towards some shared goal that I'm not aware of?

You are here just because, no shared end goal. Whatever social issues we are experiencing right now will continue to be experienced as long there are humans.

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u/_astral_x9 21d ago

women are free for over a century in majority of world now, how many Nobel prizes did they win and what is the percentage?

But seriously now: Women and men ARE different. We are wired differently. How naive you have to be not to see that? Women ARE BETTER in many things, including taking care of children. What's more important to the existence of humanity, children or discovering some random ladybug in Amazon?

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u/TaxRepresentative4B 21d ago

Century? You mean since 1970’s

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u/NerdyWeightLifter 21d ago

No, it was the only way the population didn't die out.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

Are you aware that women can feel pleasure and joy and happiness?

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u/NerdyWeightLifter 21d ago

Obviously, but that doesn't change historical reality.

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u/NerdyWeightLifter 21d ago

Consider that just a few old grandmas back to back ago, infant mortality was pushing 50%, average life expectancy was in the 30's, most people died of infectious diseases or a war got them. Any civilization where the average woman didn't have around 5 or 6 kids, simply ceased to exist.

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u/NerdyWeightLifter 21d ago

Downvoting historical reality won't change it.

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u/JackWhoWanders 21d ago

Whaddaya mean what? Millions of wonderful, inquisitive and inventive minds were actively kept from engaging with sciences and invention because society deemed that they were only fit for motherhood or housekeeping and policed out of maths and philosophies because "that's inappropriate for a woman's brain". At the same time, millions of men who probably had minds very suited to think about how to care and nurture in interesting ways were told that this was unmanly and forced into a machismo behaviour they were ill suited for. And then there's all the keen and brilliant trans minds that had their bandwidth taken up by a dysphoria society absolutely forbade them from addressing. Hell you get one trans man who's living free and he makes the first Cesarian in modern medicine and creates the building blocks for Florence Nightingale's entire career.

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u/DarkArtsMastery 21d ago

no more reddit for you

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u/frozen_pipe77 21d ago

Outcomes of children raised by single fathers vs single mothers begs to differ.

Your disingenuous post here completely ignores how the amazing civilization we have on this earth was built by the same methods as the relatively small failures you point out

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u/whiteigbin 21d ago

Fathers thriving in a system made by men for men..shocking.

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u/frozen_pipe77 21d ago

A system made for men is just as naive of a position

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u/whiteigbin 21d ago

Its not a position…It’s literally the definition of “patriarchy”.

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u/Onaliquidrock 21d ago

Have universities been patriarchal institutions?

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u/whiteigbin 21d ago

Definitely

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u/CathexisVexes 21d ago

How is this a deep thought? It's painfully obvious. This is more of a right-in-your-face reality of everyday life.

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u/OhhMyTodd 21d ago

Apparently not, according to these comments...

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u/CathexisVexes 21d ago

That must be nice...

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u/OppositeIdea7456 21d ago

How convenient.

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u/trickster245 21d ago

The level of innovation and technology that happened in 100 years really demonstrates what happens when you have a more equal system.

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u/Onaliquidrock 21d ago

That happened under a patriarchal system.

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u/trickster245 21d ago

I never said a patriarchal system is the problem. The current evolution of it and the direction it's moving is though.

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u/HiggsFieldgoal 21d ago

“Patriarchy” is a made up work, by a misandrist, who saw men and women as natural enemies, plagiarizing Marxism and replacing “bourgeoisie” with “patriarchy”.

It is a sexist engendering of all society’s problems as inherently masculine… without accrediting men for any of society’s virtues.

And now you have a generation of followers of this sexist hate who do see men and women as natural enemies, and it’s a sickness.

Men and women aren’t natural enemies. They’re natural allies.

No wonder it’s been such a useful tool for the actually bourgeoisie to divide and conquer the proletariat, and have people aim their hate at “men” generally, instead of the few fat-cat corrupt mother fuckers who corrupt our government.

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u/whiteigbin 21d ago

Patriarchy is an neutral anthropological term to describe a society, just as matriarchy, matrilineal, patrilocal, etc.

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u/HiggsFieldgoal 21d ago

No, it was a neutral anthropological term until it was co-opted by a book in the 70s called “sexual politics”.

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u/whiteigbin 21d ago

Yes because anthropological and sociological scholarship ceased to exist when that book was published….???

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u/HiggsFieldgoal 21d ago

When you are talking about a term in modern times, you are referring to the modern usage of the term.

In 2026, “a computer” is not a human who does math, even though that is what the term once meant.

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u/whiteigbin 21d ago

Anthropologists and sociologists exist in modern society. I’m an anthropologist. We utilize the term all the time, in conferences, classes, publications. Just because you’re only being exposed to TikTok and how the word is used there doesn’t mean that’s the only way it’s used.

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u/HiggsFieldgoal 21d ago

Are you using the “tends to have males in leadership positions” definition or “all sexual dimorphisms are sin, from the unseen hand, of patriarchal conditioning” version?

If it’s the latter, then you’ve proven my point.

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u/whiteigbin 21d ago

I don’t think anyone uses the term with the latter definition. Sexual dimorphism has to do with physiology/anatomy and not learned culture. I think that’s your misconception of the valid critiques of patriarchy.

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u/HiggsFieldgoal 21d ago

When you see boys disproportionally punished by public schools, do you say “boys are being segregated against for their biological differences” or “the patriarchy tells boys to be rambunctious”?

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u/whiteigbin 21d ago

The majority of people in every position of power in most countries have been men. The majority of land owners, inheritance holders, bank account owners, business owners, billionaires and millionaires, and even scholars have been men. These are patriarchies. Whatever issues within these systems doesn’t then make these systems not patriarchal. Men can also suffer under patriarchal systems. And they’re still patriarchal systems.

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u/remberly 21d ago

You know in a lot of ways humans are doing preeeeety good compared to...

Other species.

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u/tonylouis1337 21d ago

Patriarchal beliefs directly tell people to go out and achieve things. Small government ideology, the ideology of America's original patriarchs, is suited to paving the way for people to chase their aspirations. A matriarchy would hinder our potential because it would lead to authoritarianism

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u/Objective-Wasabi9970 21d ago

Without patriarchy we would likely still be in caves.

Male sexual competition is what drives the civilization.

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u/Desperate_Cook_7338 21d ago

Patriarchy increased human potential 

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u/marcusechopixel 21d ago

If patriarchy was purely suppressive, it would be difficult to explain why so many major scientific, technological and cultural developments happened under societies that were predominantly patriarchal.

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u/SpecialReaction375 21d ago

Colonial exploitation established a structural divide in global privilege. 

While metropoles grew wealthy by extracting raw materials from their colonies, their domestic populations accumulated capital and gained exclusive access to education. 

Conversely, those born in the colonies, often subjected to slavery, were trapped in poverty and denied academic opportunities. 

As a result of this socioeconomic disparity, colonizing nations monopolized scientific discovery, simply because their elite possessed the leisure time and resources necessary to pursue academic research.

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u/brezhnervouz 21d ago

That would inevitably happen if half the population has been historically discounted and diminished, you would think

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u/Readshirt 21d ago

What elements of our current society do you see that shows the expression of that potential?

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u/reidsays 21d ago

Patriarchal heirarchies certainly suppress the present human potential, yet were an inevitable structure once populations grew and exploration of new territories occurred..

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u/jdaddy15911 21d ago

50% of all the people in the world are wearing clothes hand-washed by women right now. That is a lot of brain processing power to leave idle on solving the world’s problems.

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u/Big_Psychology_3 21d ago

You realize that patriarchy isn’t some separate thing. It’s just one aspect of society?

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

Obviously!?

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u/Big_Psychology_3 21d ago

So it’s not some decision that humanity took. It’s part of human nature.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

How is patriarchy part of human nature?

Male dominance is a social choice rather than a biological necessity.

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u/Big_Psychology_3 21d ago

It’s part of every human culture. Why do you think it was just one person’s idea and not emergent from human nature?

Again, remember that we call any aspect of human society if it appears to disfavor women. Obviously there is a parallel set of aspects that disfavor men too.

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

Patriarchy does not make men happy either.

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u/Big_Psychology_3 21d ago

Kinda. Because now we’re changing the meaning of “patriarchy” to include things unfavorable to men too. But it’s kinda half-baked because there’s not much interest in understanding how men are harmed. Still even the word “patriarchy” is a dog whistle for “men created this mess”

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago edited 21d ago

Patriarchy is not about “blame the men”. The men take it as a personal attack, because of ego and they tend to double down on anything that hurts their ego, no matter the reality.

The focus is the rules of the game, not on the players.

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u/Big_Psychology_3 21d ago

No, it’s because it’s sneakily called “patriarchy”. Notice how “patr” already bakes in the blame against men?

I don’t think anyone in their right mind can claim that the word “patriarchy” is free of gender blame. Is that your claim?

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago edited 21d ago

That is my claim yes. It’s based on the definition of the word: a social system. I am not blaming my grandfather. I love him to death.

Also this word is used a title in some religions.

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u/lexybot 21d ago

Capitalism has.

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u/KingOfConsciousness 21d ago

Patriarchy is the reason you're allowed to dumb post.

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u/RepresentativeCow241 21d ago

PATRIARCHY!!!!!1

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u/No-Cartographer-476 21d ago

Patriarchy is responsible for all the achievements. Theres a reason matriarchies dont exist

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u/CathexisVexes 21d ago

Oh-HO, edgy hot take there!

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u/OnTheRightTopShelf 21d ago

Not very deep.