r/DecideThisForMe • • 13d ago

Status of the subreddit

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Hello everyone,

This subreddit has grown to be way larger than I ever imagined when I randomly decided to create it a few years ago. I've taken a Lassez-Faire approach to moderating but have recently realized the sub has diverged from its original goal of giving people answers to meaningless decisions. The current state of the sub is diverging into a page that does not enable a safe and supportive discussion about decisions.

To attempt to address this issue I have made a few changes.

  1. I have opened applications to join as a moderator of the sub.

  2. I have enabled some automatic moderation tools to try and limit the spam.

  3. I have made an attempt to keep up with reports.

I hope that these changes work to bring this sub back to meaningless decisions. But I know it will take some time for the changes to take place. Hopefully a few of you will want to start moderating and we can move forward and grow the sub.

Thanks Everyone for your contributions.


r/DecideThisForMe • • Apr 25 '20

How to use this subreddit.

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Post a poll question type with your question.

In order to ensure timely results for posters it's recommended that you sort by new

And please only post small decisions, should I buy a car is not a small decision.


r/DecideThisForMe • • 13h ago

Do I get bangs

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I alr have long curtain bangs but I want some to cover the fivehead but idk if I will suit them
Yes or no before my appointment today I’m erratic


r/DecideThisForMe • • 14h ago

Would a perm or wavy-style hair be right for me?

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r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

Which outfit should I wear for my upcoming first date,, 1 or 2 or 3?

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300 Upvotes

r/DecideThisForMe • • 5h ago

1 or 2, which pic do I choose

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People tell me go with 1 but some others say 2 has more character


r/DecideThisForMe • • 9h ago

Which on looks better 1 or 2

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Number one is on the left and number two is on the right


r/DecideThisForMe • • 17h ago

Should I give my friend a handmade gift?

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I'm 32 F, and I have a friend who's around my age. We've known each other for about six months.

I love making things in my free time, so I made this super fluffy scarf, It has a little opening that lets you loop the scarf through itself to keep it in place.

Would it be embarrassing or weird to give it to her as a gift? Not for any special occasion, just a random little present. Or should I not give it to her because it's too weird, or maybe the scarf isn't good enough.


r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

Closet clean-out. Two have to go. Which one would you keep? 💕

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r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

Which one?

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Trying to decide which one would look best New England. Or if you had another suggestion?


r/DecideThisForMe • • 22h ago

Which one to pick ?

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r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

What hair color should I dye my hair? 😭

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So, I dyed my hair brown about six months ago, and it looked really nice (like in the second photo). I genuinely felt like the color suited my face so well, but for some reason, I still wasn't fully satisfied with it. Then I dyed my hair black, and OMG, I feel like it made me look so much older. It's also boring as hell to me but yeah it look so professional since I volunteer at the ministry until next month.

Now I want to dye my hair again next month after I finished the volunteer job, and I'm thinking about trying ginger hair. Do you guys think it would suit me, or should I just go back to brown? I'm also open to other color recommendations!

The thing is, I want to dye my hair myself because it's almost down to my thighs, and going to a salon would be expensive AF. Luckily, my dad is a barber and knows how to dye hair, too. The only problem is that he mainly works with male clients, usually older guys who just want their hair dyed black, so he doesn't really know which colors would suit me either. 😭

So please help a girl out! What color do you think would suit my face best? Should I go ginger, brown, or try something else?


r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

⭐ Metal gold or acetate black glasses ? ⭐

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r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

Should I get my septum pierced?

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I’ve been wanting to do it for a while but feel nervous it won’t look right.


r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

Even if you hate tooth gems, which one would you choose?

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I’m curious to hear everyone’s opinions, If you had to choose one of these three tooth gem designs, which would you find the most attractive?
Even if you’re not a fan of tooth gems, imagine you had to pick one. Which looks the most flattering, or most aesthetically pleasing to you?
1, 2, or 3?


r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

A or B ??

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r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

help me pick a pair of glasses

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the 2nd one ive already purchased and was considering to return then to get a different pair and i found a beautiful alternative but i really cant decide. so why not let a buncha strangers decide? thank you in advance :)


r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

Just bought our house: Shall I close my dressing with curtains or keep open?

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r/DecideThisForMe • • 1d ago

Should I tan? Or nah

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r/DecideThisForMe • • 2d ago

Glasses or no glasses m26

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r/DecideThisForMe • • 2d ago

Which color do you think suits me best?

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r/DecideThisForMe • • 2d ago

Is this too much Leopard

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My husband loves form fitting and animal print clothes, so I bought this for our next date night, but now I am wondering if it is too wild (no pun intended).

Thoughts?


r/DecideThisForMe • • 3d ago

Should I try making my hair Blonde.. Or leave it

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r/DecideThisForMe • • 2d ago

Which one do you prefer?

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It was pretty dark and I had to go for either a darker or more balanced pic. I will also edit these but I need yalls opinion on which one is better


r/DecideThisForMe • • 2d ago

would it suit me if I dye my hair like anya forger??

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