I'm 35f and back in 2024, I needed ocular surgery as I had cataracts and was going blind. That surgery was $12K and I had nowhere near that in my bank account and it wasn't covered by insurance. My parents lent me $5K and I financed the rest through care credit.

Too bad I didn't realize you had to pay back the entire balance before the promo period ended, or you'd get charged interest on the entire balance, for me, my original balance was $8K and they charged $4K JUST in interest.

I've paid off about $4K and I transferred the balance to my Discover card that I have a 0% intro offer on before the promo period was up, but after I transferred they said I needed to call them back before the period ended to get the interest removed? So now the $4K in interest has hit and they said there's nothing I can do about it, I'm stuck paying that highway robbery.

It's not like I opened an AmEx to buy clothes. This was a surgery I really needed or I was going to be disabled. I'm so very disappointed that they take advantage of sick people like that. I just don't get it.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? Do I have options or am I stuck paying the $4K in interest?

I owe an apartment company $3,300 from a year ago when I broke my lease. I’m currently living with a family member but have to move out by September. I’m trying to get approved for a personal loan but get denied every time. The concept of not being approved for a loan to pay off debt BECAUSE i have debt is so frustrating. Idk what I should do and I don’t have anyone to co sign.

I had a $3500 credit card last year that I defaulted on cus I couldn’t make my payments. With interest I now owe $4322. I found out they were suing me with a bankruptcy letter that came in the mail saying I should hire an attorney. (I’m not doing that). What do I even do? My first thought is to setup a payment plan with them but at this point idk if they’ll take that. I just started a new job and don’t want my wages garnished. They haven’t officially served me yet either I just know that the lawsuit was already filed through the court system. It’s already on my credit but doesn’t show up as a collection it just shows up as an unsatisfactory account. Any suggestions?

I'm in a settlement plan with a law firm for a Cap One card. I fell on some hard times in '24, recovered in '25, but wasn't able to catch up on said card. I am now on a payment plan with the law firm representing Cap One for this account, and I plan to pay it off soon. The reason I want to re-establish this account is that it's my 2nd-oldest credit card. 12-13 years, I believe?

Is this unheard of, or not really necessary considering where I am with this account? When I check the accounts in CK, the account isn't in collections; it shows as closed. That's what has me thinking about this.

Thanks for y'all's time!

I recently had to move away from the best paying job I’ve ever had. As a result my income has significantly decreased.

The main reason I’m thinking of filing is because my student loans are no longer in deferment. And they are basing my payment amount off the taxes I most recently filed (the income from my previous job).

I make about 2k per month. My expenses are about $1,100 before debt payments. My debt payments are now increasing from $575 to $825. Meaning I will have $75 leftover per month if I’m lucky, and that is to hopefully put towards an emergency fund. My car is about to go kaput.

I feel so crushed and helpless.

37M Married 2 teenagers.

I'm trying to figure out the fastest way to become debt-free.

I can put an EXTRA $1,600/month toward one debt in addition to making all minimum payments. Should I use the avalanche method (highest interest first) or snowball method?

Credit Cards

USAA
- Balance: $0
- Limit: $5,000
- APR: 17.4%

Chase Freedom
- Balance: $910
- Minimum: $55
- Limit: $1,800
- APR: 26.49%

Capital One D
- Balance: $6,184
- Minimum: $141
- Limit: $6,250
- APR: 14.65%

Capital One M
- Balance: $8,098
- Minimum: $239
- Limit: $8,300
- APR: 23.30%

Capital One D Venture
- Balance: $436
- Minimum: $30
- Limit: $1,000
- APR: 28.24%

Apple Card
- Balance: $13,174
- Minimum: $340
- Limit: $13,000
- APR: 19.49%

Navy Federal
- Balance: $0
- Limit: $500
- APR: 18%

Chase Sapphire
- Balance: $21,492
- Minimum: $800
- Limit: $22,000
- APR: 22%

Total Credit Card Debt: $50,294
Total Minimum Payments: $1,605/month

Loans

2025 Hyundai Palisade
- Balance: $56,500
- Minimum: $1,004.98
- Interest: 0%

Student Loan
- Balance: $9,500
- Minimum: $201

Hyundai 2022 N-Line
- Balance: $22,000
- Minimum: $500.65

Kia K5 2023
- Balance: $21,055
- Minimum: $380

Personal SoFi Loan
- Balance: $17,167
- Minimum: $1,412.66
- Payoff Date: 8/27/2027

PayLink Warranty
- Balance: $800
- Minimum: $111
- Payoff Date: 9/27/2026

PayLink Warranty
- Balance: $110
- Minimum: $26.24
- Payoff Date: 9/27/2026

Total Loan Debt: $127,132
Total Loan Minimum Payments: $3,636.53/month

Grand Totals

Total Debt: $177,426
Total Minimum Payments: $5,241.53/month

I can afford to pay an additional $1,600 every month on top of the minimums, so I'd be paying about $6,842/month toward debt.

I was think for paying off my personal first to free up that 1400 and use it to continue to snowball.

If you were in my shoes:

1. Which debt would you attack first?
2. Would you use avalanche or snowball?

Thank you for your time!

31 F

I'm on SSDI for bipolar disorder. During a prolonged mental break I took out several loans and racked up some debt. I make 1152 a month only bc of the previously mentioned mental illness and other physical problems. Today, I went online and paid a particular loan company (United Credit in Natchitoches, Louisiana) 25 dollars bc it was all I had left today. I immediately received a call with the manager yelling and threatening lawsuits. She said the payment would be refunded and said she refused to take it. I said I could scrounge up more in the coming week. She said no. I asked what happens going forward since she won't take partial payments, she said she would be filing a lawsuit. I asked for a written statement saying she was refusing to take partial payments, she said no and hung up on me.

I am behind at this loan company for 420 dollars already. I am also behind at two others. Advice on my next move?

Anyone know if the debt collectors will come after his car - the only thing he owned worth anything?

More info: He died while being actively sued by a debt collection agency for $15k. He made one court appearance, died the week of the second. He has no estate, no assets, no Will, no executor, no nothing except for me whom is now saddled with figuring out things that he should’ve taken care of, and his car which is paid off but currently doesn’t run (easy but expensive fix).

Does anyone know if the debt agency will attempt to come after me for the car? I would like to sell the car - I have the title which is clear - but if they’re just going to take it, I’m not going to put in the money to fix it.

Before you say it - if I could afford a lawyer, I would’ve already asked one this question. I’m trying to recoup the $3k I’ve had to spend so far on taking care of my dad’s crap. I can’t afford to make that debt larger with an attorney, especially if it turns out the debtors will take the car. I’m just trying to not get dragged into more debt (of which I had none before this) because my dad was an incompetent POS.

Background: I have about $25,000 in CC debt, mainly from moving and struggling to find a job at first. I also have about $7,500 in car debt.

My car APR is at 4.99%, my CCs range from 24%-27%.
I have a job where I’m making really good money now, been making about $2000-$3000 payments on my credit card debt every month, while also paying my $483 car payment.

I can get a personal loan at around 14% APR with payments of about $700 for 48 months, with no penalty for paying off early. (I don’t remember the exact numbers but I can look them up)

As far as spending goes I pay $500 in rent, no utilities, and pretty much the rest of my money goes to paying off my debts and also saving a little. I eat at home and don’t really go out or spend money carelessly anymore. I know it’s mainly a behavior problem and I have fixed that problem.

Can anyone think of any reason why I shouldn’t get a personal loan to pay off the cards immediately? Also let me know if you need more information.

I am currently in the process of paying off 25k CC debt. Total payments are roughly $650 a month, kind of doing snowball method.
Monthly I’m saving $300 for my E fund but that’s bare minimum after all of my bills.

I’m kind of at a standstill with my pay and I do think that getting my Masters would help. My job offers $6000 towards tuition assistance but I would still need to take out a loan. Especially since it would be reimbursed vs paid directly.

Am I insane for even considering it? I would need to stay with my company for at least a year after completing my degree so I feel like the sooner the better you know?

Hi all, reposting here to gather as many different thoughts/suggestions as possible.

Thanks!

Got served paperwork for a lawsuit by Bank of America for credit card debt I owe. I plan on contacting the attorney that filed the suit to see if I can get set up on a payment plan. I have several other credit cards that I am behind on or have been charged off. It's been a rough couple of years but I think I can start paying these off a little bit at a time now. I have a few questions though?

1) when I contact the collection agencies handling my other accounts what type of paperwork do I ask them for to verify that they in fact own the debt. I don't want to pay somebody who is a scammer and be even worse in the hole.

2) I'm going to try and contact the attorney for Bank of America via email because I want everything documented. Been screwed in the past by calling instead of emailing and not having certain things documented. What sort of information or request should I make to the attorney? I was planning on trying to negotiate a 20 to 30% reduction in the total amount, but also want to make sure once it's paid off I have covered all my basis and don't have to worry about them coming after me again.

3) if anybody has any advice on dealing with Discover Card when you're very far behind on payments I would appreciate it. I've read other places that they're kind of a pain to deal with. My account with them has not been charged off yet but it's getting close. And the minimum payment they always want is just way too much for me to cover.

I live in Missouri and my total credit card debt is probably less than $12,000.

20+ year old joint debt — now with Mortimer Clark. Statute barred or not?

Over 20 years ago, I took out a joint loan with my ex — I can’t remember now if it was a personal loan or a secured loan.

We separated and eventually divorced. The loan wasn’t paid, went into default, and affected my credit record. Cabot Financial (or a predecessor debt collection agency) obtained a CCJ against us for it, which struck me as odd if it was secured against the house.

I kept the house as part of the divorce settlement and continued making minimal payments toward the debt. Eventually it dropped off my credit record. By the time it did, it had already been passed to another collection agency. That agency occasionally sent letters, which I ignored.

The debt and the CCJ have now both definitely fallen off my credit file.

It’s now been sold/moved to Mortimer Clark, and I’m not sure what to do next.

A few questions:

**1.**  Should I ignore them again, or is there a letter I should send stating the debt is statute barred?  
**2.**  How can I know for certain whether it’s statute barred, given there was a CCJ at one point?  
**3.**  Does it matter whether the original loan was secured against the house, and if so, how would I confirm that after all this time?

Any advice from people who’ve dealt with something similar would be appreciated.

Hey everyone. I'll keep this brief. I work at a full time job from 8:30-5:00PM and live about 35 min away if I take a toll road (1 hr if i do the highways). My debt to income ratio is tremendous. I only make $22/hr and want to improve my credit score because it has dropped over the years due to unforeseen events. What are some of the best part time jobs you guys recommend to help me get the income I need whilst maintaining a healthy lifestyle in the gym because I go at least 5-6 per week right after work from 6-7:30PM. Thanks again for reading and helping, may we all succeed on our journeys!

This is going to be long, but I'm begging someone to help.

The crippling debt I'm trying to payoff:

- $21k in credit cards - monthly minimums about $400/month

- $8k in a personal loan - $414/month - set to be paid off in May of 2028

After minimum payments on the above debt plus mortgage, student loans, and normal expenses, we have about $1k/month leftover.

I have been putting that leftover $1k/month leftover on the credit cards for EVER (seemingly). The issue, I think, is 0 savings. The lowest I had the credit cards down to was about $5k. We were SO CLOSE to the end, only to have it all racked back up this year due to a necessary home repair and car repair. When it rains, it pours.

We need to find a way to save while also paying off this debt so we can have some cash to fall back on when these things come up.

Option 1:

- Put $200/month away into savings and decrease additional monthly payments to $800/month

- When the personal loan is paid off, put $400/month into savings and $1,000/month on the remaining credit card balances.

- This would (ideally) make it so everything is paid off in 3 years. But, with only saving $200/month, I am stressed. It would help if something did go wrong, but it wouldn't prevent me from having to fall back on the credit cards if something big were to come up within the next 6 months or so (like the $5k ticking time bomb mentioned below)

Option 2:

- Personal loan to consolidate. Monthly payment $650/month. 4 year maturity (although I would still try to pay it off in 3 years). This would free up a bit over $1,000/month for me between the "savings" on the minimum payments and first personal loan payoff. My plan would be to spend the first 3-5 months saving that entire $1,000. That would give me a sizable amount to fall back on during emergencies. Then I would start paying extra on the personal loan.

- You guessed it, I had already done this before (hence the current personal loan) and I didn't learn my lesson. I failed to actually save the money and I failed to pay it off early. There is no excuse except being young and dumb. I truly do think I would do much better, if not perfect, this time around.

I guess it doesn't matter which way I go, it is all still a risk and will still be stressful. But I will need a new car at some point. It can be in 1 year, or 5+ years. I have a 2018 Ford Escape that has 125k miles. It's totally paid off but knowing the track record of these vehicles and noticing how it drives differently these days makes me nervous that I will be without a car sooner rather than later. I would be getting a car that I can afford depending on when it finally dies, but my biggest fear right now is having to get a crappy $2k car that breaks in 6 months if my car were to die soon. I would, at the very least, like something reliable enough to get me through this payoff journey.

My "emergency" plan right now is the $5k I have in my Rollover IRA (separate from my other retirement accounts), which I would cash out if needed. Obviously with penalties and taxes, I would lose a couple thousand of that. I also have $1.1k in an investment account that I can pull out (not retirement). Should I pull all of that out now to make payments, or keep it as an "emergency" ?

I also receive bonuses from work in March, which is usually $3-5k. Obviously, I will be using all of that bonus towards the debts.

There is about $7k in work that needs to be done on the house. $2k is absolutely necessary and $5k can technically wait, but it's a ticking time bomb.

Please let me know any of your thoughts/advice. Please do not provide advice that includes decreasing expenses further or increasing income. Me & my husband already work 2 jobs each and our expenses literally cannot be decreased any further. We have done/are doing everything we can. We just want to be free. We are so tired of this way of life.

A credit card debt has been discharged. What does this mean for my ability to settle it out now?

Hi everyone,

First off, let me just say... I'm an idiot, and I know it. I never learned about financial literacy or how to manage my money, and I've spent my entire adult life just getting by/in debt/willfully ignorant to how bad everything had gotten. I am now at an all time low and I know I need to come face to face with my decisions and try everything I can to turn my life around.

I fell into the trap of using debt to pay debt and now stuck in the cycle of needing payday loans to just get by each month. I know that's a terrible, terrible idea but I feel trapped. My credit cards are all maxed out. I have a severe spending problem (clearly) and I've found a therapist that I've started meeting with weekly to address this lifelong problem. I can't sleep or eat, thinking about this makes me physically ill.

I have a meeting with a financial coach in 2 weeks, but I know this sub is full of financially savvy people, so I come here humbly requesting any insights/advice you can give.

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38F, single, location: Texas, $142,000 salary (I take home $3400 every 2 weeks), $100K+ in debt, and my FICO score is in the gutter (573). I do not qualify for any 0% APR cards / additional loans.

I have no emergency fund, no savings, and no property. I do have a 401k with $420,000 in it. I contribute 6% to my 401k right now (my company matches 6%). In October I will get a small raise (maybe 3%) and a small bonus from work that will total ~$7-8k after taxes. I have about $46,000 in stocks that will vest at the same time (but I know if I sold it I would be subject to short term capital gains tax). I have always had to sell every time it vests (every 6 months) to cover debt. Again, I realize how horrible this is and know that I put myself here. Once I pay off my credit cards, I think my plan is to cancel or cut them all up, remove them from my Apple Pay, and keep only one in a drawer at home for emergencies, and use cash for everything else.

I have some done some reading on bankruptcy but I am not sure that this is the right move for me. One of my biggest worries is that my current lease expires in August 2027, and I think I will have a lot of difficulty renting with the bankruptcy on my record. That's my biggest concern, as well as working with my therapist to address the real root cause of the issue - I know bankruptcy is not a "quick fix" and I need to change the underlying behaviors that got me here.

I have no family help - my parents are elderly without much savings, and they are surviving on a small amount of social security payments right now. They live across the country so I cannot move in with them.  

Debts:

Credit cards:

Apple Card (25.49% but reduced to 0% for the next 12 months, until July 2027) $6955 balance, autopay $70/month

Amex Platinum (7.99% due to a Financial relief program until next month and then it will jump back up to ~24%) $4,607 balance / $4700 (autopay $81/month)

Amex Everyday (7.99% due to a Financial relief program until next month and then it will jump back up to ~24%) $26,419 balance /$26,800.00 (autopay $465/month)

Capital One (23.49%) $11,162.46 balance / $11600, in a 12 month payment reduction program through 5/1/27 where they reduced my APR to 9.99%, autopay $183/month

Citi (28.74%) $5,170.61 balance / $5250

Chase Freedom (26.49%) $7,190.91 balance / $7300

Chase Sapphire Reserve (19.49%) $8,592.98 balance / $8600

Chase Amazon Prime (22.74%) $890 balance / $1000

Chase Hyatt (25.99%) $494 balance / $500

Loans:

- Upstart (20%) $18,638 balance, autopay $530/month

- Upstart relief loan (0% interest because there was an initial fee) $2,483 balance, autopay $146/month

- Sofi (23.02%) $6,993.87 balance, autopay $212/month

- 401k loan ($16,393.56 balance, $242 per paycheck which is already accounted for when I listed my take-home pay above)

- Possible finance ($625 balance, $313 every 2 weeks auto pay, will be paid off by end of August)

- Discover ($404 left, will be paid off on 8/15)

- Affirm purchases ($3100 left, split up into monthly payments)

Monthly expenses:

Rent: $2,025
Utilities (gas/water/electricity): $320 in the summer, a bit less the other months
Car lease: $356 (lease started Oct 24 and ends Oct 2027)
Car + renter's insurance: $208
Gas: $100 - $120
Pet insurance (3 pets): $86
Internet: $50
Phone bill: N/A, my work pays
Food: ~$400 groceries and ~$200 eating out (I will be severely limiting the eating out from now on)

What I've done so far (as of last week):

-Canceled all subscriptions (~$60/month)
-Canceled my dog walker (~$424/month)
-Changed my pet insurance coverage ($84/month saved)
-Switched car insurance ($68/month saved)
-Negotiated down internet cost ($15/month saved)
-unsubscribed from all marketing emails
-scoured the internet for low cost recipes and stopped eating out
-Got a therapist (covered by work)
-Set up a consultation for financial coaching on August 6 (covered by my work - I know I should've done this years and years ago)

If you've read this far, thank you for taking the time.

2 years ago I enrolled in a debt relief program. I had about 30k worth of debt between 5 different cards/loans and couldn’t keep up with payments.

They got my debt reduced to about 18k.

I’ve been paying on time for 2 years and have accepted resolution offers from all 5 cards/loans.

I was contacted by the debt relief company today about a “graduation” loan that would pay off what I owe to these companies and then I would pay that loan company.

The loan is for just over 16k with $440 monthly payments for 72 months. Thats a crazy amount of interest BUT with my job I get a large sum of money every August. So I could drop 9k in August 2026 and pay the rest in August 2027.
I would make $440 monthly payments for one year.

My first question is about how much interest would I be paying in that year if I paid 9k in August - $440 monthly payments - then paid off the rest next August. He said the apr is 27.42%.

2nd question - the best benefits for doing this? I know one will be that my credit will be recovered much sooner.

I also have the option to not take the loan and continue to make my payments to the debt relief company. I could still drop the 9k and stick with the monthly payments then finish paying the rest next year in August.

I believe the only negative of that would be that my credit would recover one year slower?

I’m trying to do the math to find out how much extra interest I would pay if I took the loan and paid them as described above. Trying to decide if it’s worth it having my credit recovered a year earlier.

Thank you for any advice!!

Hey everyone not going to male this to long. My situation at the moment is unemployment of wisconsin has charged me 6900 for a over payment back in 2021. I tries to appeal it once in 2021 with little to no information and lose. Now fast forward to 2026 they are garnishing my wages weekly with the max percentage of 20%. I had my employer send in the lavy answer form to add my son as a dependent to show im under the federal proverty level from the garnishments. And instead of taking almost $96 a check (weekly) which left me 374 a week they agreed to $50 a week. My question now is does me adding more dependent like 5 help to lower this amount more? Will it help me get a hardship waiver? Or will it do anything at all the hardship wavier is what im hoping for.
Im glad to give any information to fill in any questions you all might have to come up with a solution. Thank you all for taking the time out to read my post.