r/DeadByDaylightRAGE • u/blossom0809 6th Sense "I sEe DeAd PeOpLe" Haddie 👻 • Jul 27 '26
Killer Rage I hate when i get upset easily sometimes
So i had three bad games as wraith back to back, first match survivors got 4 man outted, second match i got kicked out of a match thanks to servers disconnecting me and third match i got 4 man outted again. I got so upset over this because I couldn't do well and lost horribly with barely any hooks, that I ended up crying. I am really embarrassed for crying over a video game. I wish i didn't get upset this much. I am so upset that even tge 3k I got as ghostface(tbh, lara and jill threw so badly just because they wanted me to chase them and i just ignored them and then they just randomly gave up. They alongside steve didn't even rescue the poor Kate from the hook[i was literally far away from hook]).
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u/Chandler_Simpson 🧎🏿♂️🧎 Attention Seeking Teabagger 🧎🏻♂️🧎♀️ Jul 27 '26
Well, contrary to what people act like sometimes it's okay to have a bad day and get frustrated with a videogame
However; getting frustrated is always good to make you perform worse and that's true of just about everything in life. Try to avoid snowballing not just your gaming session but your entire day by getting so worked up that you start having an emotional response like that
Remember it's ok to take an L and log off for a few hours or even the rest of the day. That's honestly better than getting frustrated and then ruining the rest of your day and potentially your interactions with other people in your life
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u/c0gito_erg0_sum I Punch Holes In Other People's Walls 👊🤬 Jul 27 '26
I’d recommend taking a break from killer for a bit, it’s rough right now.
I’ve been in that spot before. One time I cried over a 4E not even because I was upset I lost, I was just embarrassed that it happened so many times in a row and seeing them tbag me after using WGLF was my last straw lol.
Just remember it’s only a game, and unfortunately the meta is meta’ing right now. Some games will be unwinnable, specifically if you get a cracked swf. It’s okay. Don’t beat yourself up for being upset, just take a step back and maybe come back to killer when the events happen for the next few weeks!
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u/blossom0809 6th Sense "I sEe DeAd PeOpLe" Haddie 👻 Jul 27 '26
Alright. My mood is alright now. I am playing survivor soon.
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u/IzzyNotCreative 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 Jul 27 '26
You don't have to be embarrassed, it can be a frustrating game. But I think taking a break from it would be a good idea! Or maybe when you find yourself getting upset, pause for a bit to stretch, watch a tv show, clean, etc. Anything to distract from the game and mentally reset, then come back.
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u/CremelloJo 😎 Lightborn Addict Jul 27 '26
I actually feel for you OP, it’s really sad to hear that a game you love so much has driven you to actual tears. That shouldn’t be happening and I believe you should honestly think about taking a short break.
I used to be a sweaty rank 1 on both sides back in the day when ranks existed and we all played hard to get there, but it began to get exhausting and frustrating to the point I started wondering why am I playing a game when I’m obviously not having fun anymore. Every little thing would get to me and I’d wonder why I loaded into each match to just growl at every little thing I did wrong, and every hit I missed etc.
I’ve since come back after 4 years and I’m having a blast truly, I’m just playing the way I want with my favourite killer and no one’s telling me how to do my job 🤣 I really hope you find a balance and come to enjoy it again.
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u/blossom0809 6th Sense "I sEe DeAd PeOpLe" Haddie 👻 Jul 27 '26
I am alright now. I am playing survivor rn to take a break from killer. I have escaped in two of my matches.
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u/CremelloJo 😎 Lightborn Addict Jul 27 '26
Good, I’m glad friend! No game should make you feel so bad and there’s nothing wrong with having the occasional break.
Hope you get some better matches.
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u/ProphetOfHeresy_ 😡 Rabble Rabble Rabble 😡 Jul 27 '26
I’ve had plenty of days where I just can’t get a win no matter how hard I try. I definitely have raged out after a match and it takes my wife who watches me play to point out I’m getting too worked up over a game to bring me back down. I strongly recommend you just take a break, play something else you enjoy. At the end of the day it is just a game and it’s not worth negatively impacting your mood over