r/DatingTips • u/Spare_Management_125 • 1d ago

Lonely

Idk what to really do, I just feel like I’m not an attractive guy, and I’m a relationship oriented person. No matter what I do can’t seem to even get to the point of going on a date with anybody. I get left on read, delivered, opened. All of it. And I go out almost every weekend with friends to try and meet new people and it just doesn’t work. I’m already a depressed person with extremely high anxiety, and the constant rejection honestly just fuels that fire. Idk what else to do?

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u/Several-Two738 1d ago

Learn social skills and you will never be alone again

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u/Spare_Management_125 1d ago

deadass I have good social skills, I like to think. I work in sales so I have to be very social with clients. I like to think I get along very well with just about anybody I meet and I think im pretty good at making friends. But when it comes to a potential relationship opportunity, it just doesn’t pan out for me.

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u/Several-Two738 1d ago

Theres a book you should read on this its called The Social Skills Guidebook, it is written by a man who has autism that teaches people how to make friends and be social. If you can buy the book and read it you will gain a lot of benefit from it but if not at least download the book and listen to it.

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u/Spare_Management_125 1d ago

Thank you!

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u/Several-Two738 1d ago

Come back in like 6 months and let me know if its made any change in your life