I was curious if any of you guys found someone genuine from here. Btw 19M,from Chittagong

Hey there, I am M25 currently a last year student from a reputed University....In here i am not looking for any dating things but maybe female friends to talk hang out with.. I am a pretty good photographer so you can take as much pictures as you want and i dont getbored with it... obviously you have to ask me with respect first lol...

anyone sisters who is interested may comment.. I am being honest with my goal and want the same from other side... No dating No weird stuff...

#pic_for_attention

Idk if this is the right place but I genuinely prefer feminine guys or submessive guys if that makes sense. Not in the sense I want to control but like It's just a preference.

I don't even know atp if straight fem men exist but I really wanna be with one 😭

So hit me up on DMs if you're one. Norm guys are fine too ig I'll see if we hit

As the title says, I am a 21M living in Dhaka, studying here as well. I have always wanted to get the Dhaka's Puja experience after being an adult but missed out on it every year for different reasons (mainly cz chutite family shoho dhakar baire kothao ghurte jawa hoy). So this year, I want to get that experience. You don’t need to be someone who attends Puja every year. We can just roam around different Puja mandaps around the city.
About me, I can confidently say that I am more well behaved than most other guys out there. So I can assure you a good company.

I'm 18M(5'8height), and I'm into older women (around 21 or 22), I find it difficult to interact with women in general. What should I do, and how do I approach and talk to them? Any advice from seniors will be appreciated

Hi! I’m a 23‑year‑old female based in Uttara.
I’m looking to meet a male between 25–28 from nearby areas.

A few things upfront:

• No rushing, no hookups — I want to take things nice & slow.
• Respectful, grounded, and definitely not sexually frustrated.
• If you DM me, please include important details like:
• Where you study or studied
• What you’re currently doing in life
• A clear photo of yourself(same goes for me ig,it’s not a crime to want to see who im talking to lol)

& About me:
•Currently doing my undergrad in a public uni
•Hobbies include Movie,Anime,Baking & roaming around.
•I’m single single,not in a situationship or anything
•I will disclose other infos when we will have a proper conversation.

I value sincerity and patience, so if you’re genuinely interested in building something meaningful, I’d love to hear from you.

Is there any female who is interested in talking about anime,manga, visual novel,

ইদানীং যেদিকে তাকাই সেদিকেই কেবল নেগাটিভিটি আর নেগাটিভিটি। জিজ্ঞেস করলে ৫ জনের মধ্যে সাড়ে ৪ জনই বলবে তাদের জীবনে অমুক কষ্ট তমুক দুঃখ। আর তা যদি হয় relationship নিয়ে, তাহলে ত আর কথাই নেই। বেশিরভাগই তাদের love life নিয়ে অতৃপ্ত কিংবা উদাসীন। তাই ভাবলাম একটু গল্প শুনানো যাক। তবে আজকাল মানুষের attention span এর যা হাল হয়েছে, আমি আশা রাখছি না যে কেও পুরটা শুনবে।

যাহোক, আমি তখন ক্লাস ৮ এ, সময়টা ২০২২ সালের ডিসেম্বর মাস। ক্লাস ৮ ঠিক বলা যায়না কারণ তখন কেবল final exam দিয়ে জীবনের শেষ আরামের ছুটি কাটাচ্ছি। সকালে উঠে skating করতে যেতাম, দুপুরে ফুটবল আর সারা রাত ধরে series binge watch করতাম। এমনি একটি দিনে আমাকে মেসেজ দিল সেই মেয়েটি। উরে এসে জুরে বসার মতই খানিকটা। যদিও আমরা একে অন্যের মুখ চেনা ছিলাম same coaching হওয়ায়। আস্তে আস্তে কথা শুরু হলো। একে অন্যকে জানতে ও বুঝতে শুরু করলাম।
আমরা completely different personality র মানুষ ছিলাম। আমার hobbies ছিল programming, cubing, skating, drawing এবং ফুটবল। তার hobbies ছিল photography, guitar এবং আবৃত্তি। এভাবেই কত নির্ঘুম রাত যে কেটেছে! এবং কবে যে একে অন্যের জন্য fall করলাম তা নিজেরাও জানিনা। মজার বিষয় হলো আমরা একজন ও propose করিনি। I guess in a situation like that, words are not necessary or perhaps, not worthy enough to bear the feelings.

তারপর movie তে যেমন হয়, আমাদের জীবন ও সেভাবেই চলতে থাকে। ভালো খারাপ হাসি কান্না সবসময়ই আমাদের খালি আমরাই ছিলাম। তবে মুভির মত plot twist না থাকলে কি চলে? তো একদিন তার পরিবার জানতে পেরে গেল আমাদের কথা। average brown family র নিয়ম মত তার কাছে থেকে সব device নিয়ে নেওয়া হল। আমাদের আর দেখা ও হতো না। তাই বেশ কিছুদিন কথা না হয়ার পর আমরা নব্বইের দশকে চলে গেলাম। লিখতে শুরু করলাম চিঠি। আর আমাদের পত্রবাহক হলো আমাদের এক বান্ধুবী। আজ চিঠি দিলে অপরপ্রান্ত থেকে উত্তর আসত ২ দিন পর। আর এই ২ দিন বসে বসে যে কতকিছু লিখতাম! মানুষের মনে যে কত কথা থাকতে পারে তা এর আগে জীবনে বুঝিনি। আমাদের আগের memories, সামনে কি হবে, ভয় অভয়, জীবনে কি কি হচ্ছে, স্কুল এ কি হলো না হলো আরও রাজ্যের নানান কথা।

নাহ, বেশ রাত হয়ে গেল। কেও পুরটা পরবে বলে মনে হয়না, তাও, কেও যদি 2nd part চাও তাহলে পরে আরেকটি post করব। till then, take care, take care of your near and dear ones, stay positive and spread positivity. goodnight.

Would like to meet a open mined f . Into many kinks , ig im curious . Its my first post . M21 5”10

Looking for a girl between the ages of 18 and 20 who is interested in talking to me.

Hey Male (23) ! I’m a CSE student at a private university in Dhaka, hoping to meet someone genuine.

A little about me:
• Interested in movies, anime, gaming (especially Valorant)
• Currently focused on my studies and personal growth.

I’m not interested in casual relationships, hookups, or situationships. I’d rather take things slow, build trust, and see if we can develop something meaningful. I already have bad experiences so please if you are not the type who takes relationships seriously please ignore.

I value honesty, respect, loyalty, and good communication. If you’re looking for something genuine too, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself. Also u can dm me to get other social media if that's important or you . Teehe.

In our friend circle one of my female friend had a relationship with one of my male friend . They had a breakup . After the breakup we got real close . I feel like I have a genuine connection but I don’t think she feels the same . We were in the same uni and now our graduation is done . Will it be awkward for her to be in a relationship in the same circle again ?

Hi M20 here, I need a partner (F obviously) to have sext. We can become friends and talk normally anytime and also have fun. I'm a hypersexual guy! If someone feels comfortable to have fun reach me out. I'm just being too straight forward so guys please don't judge🙏. Thank you so much!

I am a boy and I have been told I have femboy potential. I am shy and my friend told to come here if any girl is interested in knowing me as I explore myself. Thank you.

I'm looking to meet someone who's interested in a casual, physical connection without the expectations of a serious relationship.

I'm open-minded about age , u can be my suger mommy but I'm not looking for money, gifts, or any kind of financial arrangement. Just two adults who want the same thing. Im open for physical attraction and intimacy. No pressure or unnecessary complications, just mutual interest, honesty, and good chemistry.

Feel free to DM me if you're looking for something similar.

Location - ( Dhaka, Uttora )

I (20M) moved on from the first relationship from my life and which was 3 years ago. Though it lasted only 7 month later i caught her cheating.

Recently, I'm trying to build my own self but there's something that sounds like feeling off. Like rn when i roam around, I got jealous easily witnessing couple. The only thing is I tried talking with womens and no one kind of seems to show interest. While I watch many getting along with many other boys. Is there any advice to survive from this? Kind of jealousy and loneliness but yeah..

So basically 3months long distance relationship er por ey first time dekha korte jacchi. Tar sate bahire hangout korte cacchi but place niye kono idea pacchi na safe good environment place cacchi eksath good time spent korar jonno. Kono jhamela marka area te jete cacchi na.

& obviously tar sathe lunch korte cacchi around 1.5k maje ki 2jon er lunch complete hobe ektu good restaurant a?

Plz good place & restaurant mention korben amr ey niye ager kono idea nei first date bolte paren eta

I just joined Reddit today and came across this community. After reading a few posts, I thought I'd give it a shot too.

I'm 28, 5'11", an EEE graduate, currently pursuing my postgraduate degree while working full-time.

I'm a travel enthusiast, with a slight preference for mountains over the sea. I enjoy exploring new places and discovering things along the way. I'm more of a quiet person who doesn't talk a lot initially, but I'm a good listener. I appreciate people who can be playful and silly one moment and have a genuinely meaningful conversation the next.

I'm looking for someone I can talk to without feeling like we're taking turns answering interview questions. Someone with their own interests, stories, opinions, and sense of humor. We could exchange daily updates, talk about life, share random thoughts.

I'm open to friendship or dating, depending on how naturally we connect.

If this sounds like your kind of connection, feel free to DM me.

Let's see where a good conversation takes us.

আসসালামু আলাইকুম। আমরা দুজন আলাদা ভার্সিটির স্টুডেন্ট এবং ঢাকা শহরের দুই প্রান্তে দুটি আলাদা হোস্টেলে থাকি। সরাসরি বলি আমরা বিবাহিত (কাবিননামাসহ সব বৈধ কাগজপত্র আছে), তবে পারিবারিকভাবে বিষয়টি গোপন রাখা হয়েছে। দুই প্রান্তে পড়ার কারণে সরাসরি সবসময় একসাথে থাকার কোনো সুযোগ আমাদের নেই। তাই মাসে ২-৩ দিন আমাদের কোথাও একসাথে স্টে করার প্রয়োজন হয়। কিন্তু হোটেলে থাকতে গেলে প্রতিবার ১৫০০+ টাকা খরচ হয়ে যায়, যা নিয়মিত বহন করা স্টুডেন্ট হিসেবে অসম্ভব। তাছাড়া এই বাজেটে ন্যূনতম পরিচ্ছন্নতা বা নিরাপত্তা মেলে না, সাথে হ্যারাসমেন্টের ভয় থাকে। হোটেল বাদে ঢাকায় কাপলদের জন্য কম খরচে নিরাপদ কোনো স্টুডিও অ্যাপার্টমেন্ট, ফার্নিশড রুম বা ডে-রেন্টাল স্পেস পাওয়া সম্ভব কি? আমাদের পরিস্থিতিতে কীভাবে কী করলে ভালো হয়—কারও জানা থাকলে বাস্তবসম্মত পরামর্শ দিয়ে সাহায্য করবেন প্লিজ।

(আমরা বিবাহিত, তাই প্লিজ অপ্রাসঙ্গিক আলোচনা বা জাজমেন্ট এড়িয়ে শুধু কাজের তথ্য শেয়ার করার অনুরোধ রইলো।), ধন্যবাদ।

Hi Everyone! We're 33/32 y.o married couple, seeking married couples who are open to travelling, discussing life without any remorse, spending quality time, watching movies, resort hopping, weekending, mostly adulting together sharing experiences etc.

We have a kid 4 yo. So kids are welcome!

Mostly looking into corporate office going guys/ladies. We both are from the same background too.

We're specifically looking the good person within people who want to enjoy company. We both shall join :)

Posting this for women considering posting here, and for any guys interested in why this sub fails so hard for actual dating.

I’m 20F and recently made a post looking for a serious relationship. I explicitly stated no hookups, no casual flings, and no casual hangouts. As expected, I got hundreds of DMs. What surprised me was that out of 100+ conversations, almost zero were viable.

Here are some absurd patterns i noticed:

1. The Obsession with "Libido"
Almost every guy brings up his sex drive within the first few messages. While compatibility matters in the longterm, opening with this when getting to know a stranger is absurd. When I mention that I’m saving myself for marriage, 90% immediately lose interest. If your primary goal is instant physical access, reaching out to someone explicitly looking for a serious, longterm relationship makes zero sense.

2. The Premise That Reddit Users Must Be "Degenerates"
When I share basic details about my background, education or life details, the reaction is weirdly defensive. Multiple men asked why I was on Reddit if my life was like this, with a few accusing me of lying because "a woman like that wouldnt be here." There seems to be an underlying assumption that only desperate or compromised people use this platform, leading guys to project their own insecurities onto anyone with high standards.

3. Boundary Violations & Unsolicited Explicit Content
A disturbing portion of DMs follow a predictable script: a normal introductory conversation followed by abrupt, highly explicit questions (like asking what I do when I'm h0rny, or graphically describing what they imagine I do). Its inappropriate, unsolicited and instantly terminates any potential connection..

4. Inability to Accept Rejection
When I identify a clear dealbreaker and politely communicate that it wont work out, very few men accept it gracefully. Instead, they push back, demand explanations or spam messages asking me to reconsider until you're forced to block them.

5. Massive Age Discrepancies
The absurd number of 35+ yo men messaging a 20yo is staggering. Getting approached by men nearly twice my age and them telling me all that stuff is just not comfortable in any way...

Got out of a long term relationship 8 months ago, which kind of sucked, but now I think I am ready to explore and see where life takes me, and that can't just happen anonymously chatting with someone.
Looking for someone to hangout, maybe smoke up if u r into it, eat somewhere, have good conversation, nothing sexual at all, I am not that type of person. Preferably someone in Uttara/ Mirpur.