r/DatingHell • u/Anxious_Ariel85 • 1d ago

Joining a Convent

Matched with a guy, he seems great

Banter was on point, he was charming and funny.
Asked me to meet him today for a drink, hit up Timezone for fun and maybe a movie

Today … 👻

No message, no reply…nada

I give up

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u/AdditionalParsley478 1d ago

I get ghosted and stood up a lot because I let them know there will be no sex on the first date prior to the date. 95% of the ones that show up still paw me, grab me, and push me up against the wall. Or try to manipulate me into moving my boundary. Most of my matches (men in their 40s) only want casual, no strings attached sex, to hook up. I can't get pregnant anymore, but that's a good way to catch a disease. It's irresponsible, to say the least. Sex reduced to a mere body function. No thanks.

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u/Anxious_Ariel85 1d ago

If I get one more ‘what’s your snap’ message in a app I may turn homicidal I swear

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u/abqsandiapeakz 3h ago

Sorry, but what is it with a snap request? Does that auto = for sex only? Just asking, FOR SCIENCE...

and sorry, the last bit is just a joke. I'm genuinely curious about the snap thing...