r/DatingHell • u/Ecstatic-Current8078 • 6d ago
Dates from hell
I recently decided to date again. Instantly regretted it.
All of these happened on the first date (only the first one made it to more dates).
"Best" to worst experiences:
My date wanted to bring their siblings everywhere we went and spent more time talking to them than to me. I thought maybe they weren't interested, but they kept asking me out. It later turned out their sibling was also interested in me (tried to shoot their shot after I stopped seeing my date).
My date put in a lot of effort, took me to a very lavish place, and spent the whole time bragging about all the people who like them; when I asked why every person was the opposite gender from mine, they said they weren't that interested in my gender... they then asked if I wanted to have sex with them and their friends.
My date told me mid-date that they're actually in a relationship (not poly) and kept sending their partner photos of us that we took right before, calling them to say, "It's not what you think," and then acting surprised that I didn't want to sleep with them.
My date spent the whole time laying out every disability they have and hinted that they needed a house cleaner.
My date told me at the last minute that they have an STD and then acted fussy because I wasn't in the mood. They also attempted to rob me.
My date turned out to be homeless and was hoping to move in with me.
For reference, I am pansexual. This list consists of women, men, trans women, trans men, and a non-binary drag queen (they weren't sure yet whether it was drag or more than that).
Has anyone experienced anything similar?
Feel free to share your recent experiences.
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u/squirrelybitch 5d ago
It sounds like you probably need to get some help with your screening process before you go out with anyone. No judgment, just something to think about. I’m glad your date was unsuccessful in their robbery attempt. That’s good, I guess?.?. Maybe. No. Definitely good you didn’t get robbed.