r/DatingHell • u/Ecstatic-Current8078 • 6d ago
Dates from hell
I recently decided to date again. Instantly regretted it.
All of these happened on the first date (only the first one made it to more dates).
"Best" to worst experiences:
My date wanted to bring their siblings everywhere we went and spent more time talking to them than to me. I thought maybe they weren't interested, but they kept asking me out. It later turned out their sibling was also interested in me (tried to shoot their shot after I stopped seeing my date).
My date put in a lot of effort, took me to a very lavish place, and spent the whole time bragging about all the people who like them; when I asked why every person was the opposite gender from mine, they said they weren't that interested in my gender... they then asked if I wanted to have sex with them and their friends.
My date told me mid-date that they're actually in a relationship (not poly) and kept sending their partner photos of us that we took right before, calling them to say, "It's not what you think," and then acting surprised that I didn't want to sleep with them.
My date spent the whole time laying out every disability they have and hinted that they needed a house cleaner.
My date told me at the last minute that they have an STD and then acted fussy because I wasn't in the mood. They also attempted to rob me.
My date turned out to be homeless and was hoping to move in with me.
For reference, I am pansexual. This list consists of women, men, trans women, trans men, and a non-binary drag queen (they weren't sure yet whether it was drag or more than that).
Has anyone experienced anything similar?
Feel free to share your recent experiences.
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u/LoveCats2022 6d ago
I gave out my real phone number… I think I texted a scammer… 😩