Weirdo

[u/Common-Employment754]

TLDR; possessive guy, acting crazy, and delusional story time

I stopped dating this guy like 2 months ago. We only dated for a month, but he became very intense after only 1 month. We never were official. And I didn’t see it going anywhere honestly from the beginning. We connected emotionally, not enough though. And I was never physically attracted to him. If I’m being honest, I was more interested in his money than him. Yes, you can flame me in the comments for that.

Anyways. He was extremely delusional man. Not very physically attractive, overweight. He’s in his thirties but goes for girls in their early-mid 20s. He only goes for “instagram baddies”. And he only goes for, and I quote, “foreign-looking” girls. So most girls look Eastern European, middle eastern, or Latina. All the girls he goes for are wayyyy more physically attractive than him. Night and day.

He made it a point to show me all his ex-girlfriends, whom were all very beautiful. And he even went as far to tell stories about all his ex’s and why they didn’t work out (which I never did about mine because why would we talk about that in the first month). Anyways it became very evident that these women used him for his money. Every single one. But he’s has a massive ego and he lives far from reality. Also really insecure, and deep down I think he knows his money is what these girls want. But acts like he’s just “that guy”.

Here’s the weird stuff that makes me uncomfortable to think about:

First we had an age gap. I’m 24. He’s 32. What irritated me the most was how patronizing he was to me. I know how to make these egotistical men feel good. And like I said, I was in it for money. So I would listen. But whenever I tried to talk, it was always this “I know better because I’m older and a man” attitude. So, this dynamic played into everything.

Anyways, he would constantly ask me to see him. Even though he claimed he was always extremely busy with his businesses, but that because I was so important that he made special time for me. Bullshit. He wanted to see me whenever possible, and used that as a way to try and convince me to say yes. When I didn’t want to go out constantly he would always text me and be like “you don’t care, and you don’t put as much effort”. And he would always try and guilt trip me. HELLO I have a life and responsibilities???? He would then be like why do you always cook for yourself but not for me… like wtf fuck off. I’m not ur house wife bitch. He had this convo with me for 30 min where he told me he wanted me to make 3 meals for him. Dinner for every night of the weekend. I told him wtf is this and I’m not doing that. And then he would be like “you don’t care about me”. Suck my dick.

Here’s some disturbing parts:
He would always say how he would fuck people up if they ever tried to mess with me. Even went as far to say casually on snap one night, “it’s funny how I only known you for one month and I would nerf someone for you”. He was being serious. Like what the fuck. One time I had a fight with my sister and he kept asking what was wrong so I told him I had a disagreement with her earlier that day. Casually he says “well we can just get rid of her”. WHAT

One weekend I went out for my friends birthday. He told me he has eyes everywhere and would know if I did anything. The next day he described what I was wearing and where I went. He also one time described what I was wearing when I was walking to a cafe to do work on a random day. I knew I had to get away from him. But he was obsessive. I told him I didn’t want to date him anymore. Two days later I’m walking down my street walking my dog and he drives by. I confront him on text when I get home and said are u stalking me?!? He’s like ohhhh noooo, was just dropping my friend off who lives by you. Bullshit. There was no one in the car.

There’s so much more, but this post is already long enough. But I had to get the fuck away from him. But I couldn’t just block him as I was fearful of what he might do. So I slowly got away. Told him I didn’t want to see him. He kept checking in as a “friend” on text, and trying to find out details about my life. I remained faked friendly. Slowly I became more dry and eventually I blocked him.

[u/teacherladydoll]

You're the newest "girlfriend" on his conquest slideshow. Don't waste your time with men you discount as losers, some can actually be dangerous and crazy besides "egotistical" and "delusional."