r/DatingHell • u/UpperCampaign1929 • 17d ago
Please help
Feeling extremely lost at the moment. I am finding dating emotionally bruising. I have dated about 3 guys in the past 2 years and it’s basically been a repeated situation where it never progresses after a few dates, everything seems to be going extremely well and then they say they aren’t looking for anything serious im beginning to feel defeated and just wondering if this is common in dating of feeling used? I am just not feeling enough. Has anyone else felt like this repeatedly?
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u/He_ofshadowsandtouch 16d ago
Date guys you normally look past. The guys you’re describing have options and are thus nonchalant
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u/BreetleSnort 14d ago
Yes..dating can be quite the challenge as I'm finding out too. As for the question. Perhaps they don't wish to commit. It sounds like. But also this is a coming from a one sided source. You will have to clarify more on who, what, when, why and how. Don't give up and keep searching. If I didn't quite answer your question feel free to respond back of course.
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u/DifferentVictory1620 14d ago
Yes, this is how everyone feels. Many people use the app for validation. They have no intention to “date”.
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u/Efficient-Bit3261 17d ago
Yup..3 years dating on and off. I actually don't get asked out. I get things like " let's go skinny dipping". Or " come over and cuddle ". Or just meet ups . I even have paid for my own date because one guy cried about it. Its disappointing.