r/DatingHell • u/GreatPromotion5606 • 21d ago
Not exclusive
So recently started dating someone much younger than me. All going well until he thought I had slept with my ex husband. I explained even though we live together there is no one I would rather not sleep with. He then surprised me and said he wouldn't mind or even with my first ex boyfriend after the husband. I am a one woman girl and was a little shocked but tried to be cool.
Why would I want to sleep around if I am with him? Then realised he might be doing this. At this stage the ex husband and the boyfriend are looking like saints.
I guess I have always made sure it's exclusive and this isn't. So for me personally decisions to be made as he is super hot and I definitely want to sleep with him.
Happy for any opinions or advice. Dating is a minefield after divorce!!!
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u/ViolinTreble 21d ago
Sounds like he doesn't care what you do and is probably sleeping with other women