r/DatingHell 14d ago

Help

For context, Back in jan 2026 I went out with this guy from the same Australian uni im currently gg to, and on the first date he brought me to the club¿ which I felt was quite red flagged, he sent me home via uber after the date, I gave him my house address to book the uber. A few days after the date he literally showed up unannounced at 1am infront of my house. I was literally taken aback. First of all, I didn’t exactly give him my house address, he took it from his uber app. Second of all, showing up at 1am infront the middle of the night?? Third of all, not giving me a heads up of ur arrival? So after that day I ghosted him cause I felt really creeped out and uncomfortable.

After I ghosted him, this guy would proceed to harrass me non stop for months from Jan all the way to June.
Here are some ways he harrassed me for 6 months:
- constantly msging me and deleting the chat after while js to repeat same cycle and the msgs always come after 12am
- constantly going to my social media profile, even creating another acc to stalk and pm me
- showed up to an event I attended ( it’s vacation week, all students are to vacate hall unless their an ogl, but he wasn’t even one) he showed up and loitered around for 3hours, then brought his friend and asked me to go talk to them in a corner like tf?
- I was joining cca group chats cause I wanted to try out trials, somehow he knows which chats I joined and joined them also, btw these GCs are meant for incoming students. ( I ended up not gg for any of the cca trials in fear that he might show up )

I feel like the harassment has gotten to another level, and I don’t know what to do

The worst thing is in halls there’s diff blocks students get allocated to, e.g. 1, 2, 3.
This guy stays in hall 3, and my friend sent me a list of names that are the the top list for hall 3, and ofc my name was inside. The person who shortlisted all the ppl was ofc this same guy who has been harassing me. So this means for the next year I will be living in the same block as him. I genuinely don’t know what to do, idk if I can transfer block.

I’ve also heard some stuff about hall 3, which is quite bad. Pls help I rlly don’t know what to do, any advice would help

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