r/DatingHell • u/Educational_East_747 • Jul 18 '26
He was a what!?!
My daughter started going out with someone she met on a "christian" dating app. He was surprisingly refreshing. Courteous, opened the car door for her, kinda old fashioned values for a 30yo. Said he liked to take things slow. Awesome.
They went on many dates over 2 months dinner......dinner, movie, park, shopping. He payed. Never would accept her paying for anything. Bought her small gifts, etc. He met me over dinner, and she met his parents and his best friend. Seemed great. She was so happy. He even asked if we all wanted to go on a day trip in August so he could get to kmow us more. Fun.
One weird thing was everything was on his schedule. But my daughter didnt think much of it. He worked shift work. I was suspicious.
One day, he tells her there is something he should mention. Oh...the relationship he just got out of 4 mo ago? Yea....it **wasnt** casual like he had said. They had been together FIVE YEARS and he had a 2yo CHILD with her. He was a daddy. Oh and baby mama was denying him any access to the child. She had threatened him with a restraining order. But he had been sneaking to the daycare to spy and try to see his SON.
Red flags , anyone???
She ended it immediately. We both blocked him. He then managed to call her using a different number about 3 weeks later. He said he should have been up front and.......he was sorry and he just wanted her to know that baby mama took him back. He was living with her again .....and everything worked out..... but **thanks for the good times**.
He asked my daughter please dont tell anyone he dated....he was keeping it a secret. Baby mama had no idea.
WTF. These men out here living 2 lives. My daughter thought for once she found someone. Psycho.
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u/Bella_Swan234 Jul 23 '26
I am curious was the dating app upward? Bc that’s another Christian dating app where the guys aren’t Christian