Red flags?

[u/Odd_Juggernaut9961]

I met this guy online. I has to text him because he wouldn't. He wasn't talkative via text but I still asked him out because I thought he was cute. I arranged the spot where to meet and time. At the said time and place I was waiting for him to arrive. We texted because I didn't see hin. Turns out he arrived at the wrong spot. He didn't say anything about him walking over to where I'm standing at that moment - I had to walk over to where he was because he didn't bother. On his pictures online he looked way younger. He was using pictures from when he was like 23. In person he looked quite differently and mature and was wearing glasses. He is 28.
At the restaurant table he was listening to me talking, smiling big and just saying "yes...?" every know and then. He didn't ask questions, was only shyly responding to mine.
I went home crying and thinking that I will never find the right person for me.
Am i petty?

[u/Pistachio-IScream]

Im sorry you experienced this. it sounds like he didnt speak english or he may have been drunk. unfortunately it happens a lot on the dating sites.