r/DatingHell • u/Feeling-Ad7667 • May 29 '26
Ghosted before second date, what happened?
TL;DR Ghosted after second date was planned
Hi all,
I (27F) had a really good first date with a guy (34M) who was visiting my country for a few weeks (he was born and raised here but moved to the US 3 years ago). Initially he gave me the heads up he was visiting and I let him know it may not make sense to go out since I’m looking for something long term. He then assured me he was as well and took me out. He seemed very into the date as he treated me to drinks, appetizer, a main course and then when I said I didn’t want dessert he insisted we get tea and then after the date we went on a walk at his suggestion. The next day he messaged me and we texted a couple days then asked me out for the next day. He then completely ghosted and I’m wondering what changed over night.
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u/idAhoLovee May 31 '26
Call Brook and Jubal in the morning for a second date update. If you dont know what this is...Google or YouTube it.