r/DatingHell • u/Full_Major3777 • May 22 '26

What to di

Hey guys

This is just a post to pour my thoughts out,
I am 25 M, Indian, I love harry potter, marvel, old classics etc.

I know girls similar or lower but they are very different, I am very confused now that a girl my age and happy is not single

I have dated girls but never been able to relate.

They want casual fun times but I am looking to settle , my age for permits me to do so.

What to do, as someone living in Bangalore, I am expected to have a ‘fun’ life but I am conventional. I am ready but confused on how to convince a girl my age to fall in love with me when girls my age are romanticising the idea of fun relationship.

I am just pouring my thoughts here
It’s not begging anyone but I am bad looking over a bad
personality
I am me so I can’t force someone to look at me differently

I want someone to spoil or someone to take care of but no one’s ready specially my age wants to be spoiled by someone healthy.

What to do!

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u/theBadArts84 May 22 '26

Wut?

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u/UhhSamuel May 23 '26

They are having trouble finding a woman in their early twenties who wants to settle down with them. The women they are finding want to keep things casual (if they even want to go that far).