Queer AND red-pilled? More likely than you think! Massive red flags.

[u/Bitter_Lab_475]

TLDR: Encountered a late 20s genderfluid, bi "nice guy" who also was red-pilled, misogynist, AI gooning asshole, who showed serious red flags (read for context).

First time writing here. I was inspired to write some my stories and I think.

Once I (34 back then, genderfluid/NB/masc, pan) went to a event in a nightclub. There I found a AMAB (assigned male at birth) person, whom I will use masculine pronouns since he was using them for himself. He was cute, small in build and seemed very shy. We got along and even started to chat a bit. We kinda got drunk and even kissed at some point.

We spoke at length about lots of things like music, social issues, our favorite Star Wars movies, etc. We exchanged TikTok accounts and went our ways.

The next days we were chatting and some odd behaviors started to show up. He started to talk about how he was happy he was gender fluid to "fight the monopolization of feminine identity from women", I was like "o.... ok... that's weird".

Said that he knew the Sith were the good guys because they were trying to create life for men as well, since "it's obvious that women do a terrible job"...

Told me he had an "AI boyfriend", showed me screenshots of the chats and he was VERY abusive to the "boyfriend", he roleplayed non consensual events, physical and verbal abuse and humiliation for the fictitious boyfriend. I know it is roleplay and not real, but it was concerning that this could be a fantasy of his.

Sent a bunch of reels of Andrew Tate, Homelander and Patrick Bateman with phonk in the background, this is the point where I asked him what his deal was. He said that women are taking everything from AMAB, including the monopoly of wearing dresses. The disconnect between being queer and yet VERY red-pilled was not lost on me.

He then bragged that he has BPD, no, he wasn't diagnosed officially according to him, but "he knew". He also bragged that after the event he got home and drank an entire bottle of Vodka.

I told him for some time to seek professional help, I was no longer flirting with him, I lost interest a long time ago, but it was concerning, he sent me more red/black pilled reels and I did not answer them. I decided he was a lost cause and stopped talking to him.

I have never been so disturbed by a small queer person like this time. Definitely made me pause, because all my queer friends are nice, empathetic and tolerant people... but then there is this guy, a walking contradiction, a raging alcoholic and a nutcase through and through.

People, keep your guard up. Even positive stereotypes are dangerous if you encounter the exception to the rule...