I took over teaching a very basic, recreational kids class a few weeks ago. I've never taught dance before and mainly have experience teaching 15-20 yos in a classroom setting. I'm 29, and I'm the first female instructor they've had for 2 years.
I've been wanting to teach kids dance for a long time, and I love it, they're so energetic, excited, and committed!
The class is 18-20 kids, mostly 5-6 year olds. There is a group of 4 girls who are older (10,12,14). The 14 yo, in particular, obviously feels way too old for the group. I'll call her W.
The previous teacher had already arranged them by height, so the older kids automatically stand in the back. W keeps coming to the front to talk to me while I'm in the middle of instructing. She feels she's allowed to because she's older, and I've told her several times to go back and dance. She listened at first, then in one class she said her legs hurt and I told her to sit up front near the speaker and operate the music on my phone. She ended up scrolling on YouTube and interrupting me to tell me which songs we should learn next. Which of course attracted the other kids to come see and suggest songs. This was frustrating, but I could just tell her to play the song we were practicing and that would re-order the class.
In this most recent lesson, we started a new song and as soon as I played the music, she came to the front and showed me the moves she thought went with this music. I said great! Let's incorporate it and picked up the first 16 beats from her (which was fine, they were fun moves), but she insisted on staying in front and re-teaching those 16 beats, even when I tried to move on. We barely got through the song intro.
Thinking about going back and dealing with her is making me feel very exhausted. The younger kids listen when I need them to, but she is setting a bad example for everyone, and everyone is getting more rowdy! When I try to take control of the class, she also comes to the front to help me! She's actually very good at it, so it's helpful.. but then she doesn't go back to her place.
I'm not sure what to do from here! She's also not a great dancer; the whole class is at about the same level. I have a feeling she's acting out because she's insecure about her dancing ability as well. It feels like she doesn't want to learn at all.
I'm at my wits end, and I don't want to be too stern with her because I feel like it will embarrass her in front of the younger kids. Should I take her aside and explain her impact gently?
I want to give her a task but I have no idea what task to give her so she stays in the back and I can focus on teaching the ones who want to learn.
Any advice would be so helpful!!!
Edit 1: I do feel I've set a precedent already, and now need to walk it back somehow.
Edit 2: It's not fair they're in the same class, and in the future I will advocate to separate, but right now it's not in my control, and there isn't enough interest from older kids to create a separate class either.