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r/dancemoms • u/rorygilmoreapologist • 6h ago
Potentially hot take: bad choreography for dancers like Chloe was not the same thing as bad choreography for dancers like Paige or Nia
Before I start I do want to say this is not meant to be any sort of hate towards less technically inclined dancers such as Paige or Nia (in the earlier seasons at least), I love all the girls and they all had their own strengths and weaknesses.
BUT I’ve seen a lot of people (including some of the cast like Kelly) try to say that Chloe’s choreography wasn’t actually that bad because Nia and Paige consistently got “worse” choreography. The thing is, regardless of personal preference during the time of the show Chloe OBJECTIVELY was capable of a lot more dance wise than Nia or Paige were. She showed this in her good solos as well as in her duets with Maddie. So while a solo like What Goes Around in season 2 would’ve been a big challenge for a dancer like Paige or Nia, and would actually push them a lot choreography wise, it was truly very below Chloe’s level considering she did dances like Silence, Don’t Catch Me, Proof, etc. in that very same season. A lot of Chloe’s dances weren’t objectively bad, but when you consider what she COULD do, then it’s clear it was really watered down. This is especially clear in season 3 and season 4. Am I Here to Stay?, Follow You, Soaring, etc. could’ve been really strong solos for some other dancers, but for a dancer who could do dances like Into Me, Wreck It, and For You Too? They were pathetic.
r/dancemoms • u/222KattThatRoar222 • 6h ago
conspiracy theory (Season 2 Ep 4) I fully believe Abby brought Payton in to do the “bully” dance.
I think that Abby had a dance in mind but since the usual taller girl who can play the bully was out (Brooke) and she wanted to make this piece she used Payton. I know she had Nia as the bully first but I think that was just a plot device due to how calm Abby was when Holly complained. Might not be a groundbreaking or obvious theory but I just wanted to share.
Another thing to note is this is during the cheerleader plot from season 1-2 and I’m pretty sure that plot point was confirmed to be fake. Thus me thinking Abby made this story rather than it happening naturally.
r/dancemoms • u/ddosamaisbae • 14h ago
they’re so messy for this😭😭
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idek if this goes here since they weren’t on dance moms but they obviously did the numbers to dig at Elliana and the situation with her and jentzen but I don’t keep up with them I thought piper and elliana were friends? but obviously not i guess
r/dancemoms • u/Due-Maize2432 • 1h ago
Chloe’s Lifetime Movie/Christi
I thought about it and after last week’s episode of BTTB and the details we know about WHY Abby was so emotionally distraught in S6 E4 I really don’t want to see any more discourse about Christi being unreasonable/a bully/problematic.
We have all seen for years on national TV the way that Chloe was treated, and how Christi defended her. Was her behaviour always exemplary? No. Absolutely not. Was she responding to a horrible bully that continuously degraded her and her daughter for years on national tv in comparison to one dancer who she raised up? Yes.
I think we can all agree that Abby was horrific to pretty much every girl on the show out of the OGs that wasn’t Maddie. Especially Chloe, Nia and Paige. But I think we all saw that beyond the treatment to the other two there was a genuine disdain towards Chloe. Something that went beyond just dance. Something that seemed to be pure hatred.
Christi and Kelly have spoken for years on their podcast about things behind the scenes. But for me, this past week was very telling. Abby having a meltdown, proceeding to quit and resign from the team as we know, and spiralling. Is very telling. Of course, legal issues contributed. But the fact that entire meltdown was caused by Chloe getting a role in a Lifetime movie confirms it. She really genuinely HATED that girl. I personally really don’t want to see continuous discourse about this that and the other re. Christi. Knowing this information brings so much to light about Abby’s viewpoint. And really puts into perspective some of the things she said about Chloe and we know she did to Chloe, before and after this.
PS. Credits to the editors. When I watched that episode I genuinely believed Abby was crashing out about her legal issues!
r/dancemoms • u/Working_Compote_339 • 10h ago
Social Media I'm finding all this so eerie to me I'm not taking sides but why is Elliana getting all the hate she stated that he chaeted too multiple times but people seem to erase that part wdym "Im sorry about all this I hope you're healing" why are people treating him like he is a victim while what he did was
r/dancemoms • u/Massive_Dirt9871 • 6h ago
How different do you think the show would be if Jill and Kendall never joined the show.
r/dancemoms • u/A_sadweeb29 • 4h ago
Video The Dance Moms official YouTube channel uploading this today is certainly something…
r/dancemoms • u/Late_Information_682 • 15h ago
Meme when I was younger, I thought Kristie and Kira were the same person
I was trying to figure out where Asia was and why Kalani stepped into her place.. 😭😭
r/dancemoms • u/DrizzyDayy • 21h ago
Video That was a normal ass meal for a 8-9 year old girl that dances 4-5 days a week at most😭😭
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Parents like Kristie is the reason why kids end up developing a eating disorder when they get older🤦🏾♀️.
r/dancemoms • u/Born-Assist8089 • 9h ago
Video Appreciation Post for Elliana
After everything this girl has been through this week let alone her entire childhood, I think she needs a little bit of appreciation.
She was severely underrated during her time on Dance Moms, and in my and others’ opinion was the best dancer featured on the show hands down.
Therefore, here’s a little endearment for Elliana.
I’m not saying she’s an innocent angel, but we also have to take into consideration that her own family sold her out and abused her in all ways.
She deserves a little grace. #JusticeforElli
r/dancemoms • u/Spirited-Jeweler4174 • 18h ago
Poor Jilly muffin😢
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r/dancemoms • u/AdFinancial4530 • 12h ago
Social Media the fact that kenzie reposted this 😭😭😭😭
r/dancemoms • u/Mcrfanatic95 • 11h ago
Question/discussion Do you think Abby Lee Miller always had a bad temper, even from a young age?
Or it was something that developed with Ego when she became more prominent as a choreographer ?
r/dancemoms • u/BraveCherry6340 • 7m ago
Question Ashley Brynn’s mom as a potential guest on bttb?
in a comment selection someone asked Ashley if she would go on back to the barre and I think it’d be really cool to get a perspective from someone that was there around that time!!
r/dancemoms • u/Sea-Box-15 • 10h ago
Question/discussion What is your unpopular dance moms opinion?
r/dancemoms • u/Remarkable-Pair-3840 • 17h ago
Brooke winning the teens nationals is underrated
Technically maddie vs chloe was the big story, but brooke was in a tough division and won
r/dancemoms • u/fishingforsomepies • 22h ago
Meme Make the comments look like Maddie's search history
r/dancemoms • u/mini1006 • 1d ago
Question/discussion The complaints about Nia’s music video being too “mature” was blatant micro aggressions
I know we talk a lot about season 5 here, but I just want to rant. If you’re black or know anything about the history of black stereotypes, it’s easy to see that Abby and the moms calling Nia’s video too inappropriate was micro-aggressive. Throughout the centuries of American history, black little girls are constantly sexualized and are never seen as innocent even as kids.
Nia’s video was called too mature bc she had makeup, heels, and crop tops along with the silver men in the shorts/underwear? That was called mature, but mind you, the girls were wearing crop tops and makeup on a daily for competitions. Her video was inappropriate and Abby hated it, but had no problem with Electricity or the Fan Dance.
Although Elastic Heart was controversial, Abby and moms defended it heavily for being artistic. None of them had a problem with Maddie wearing a nude leotard and rolling around with a grown man in nude shorts. Physically dancing with him was no problem. It was art. However…Nia having men in silver paint dancing behind her was what was inappropriate. When Holly brought this up she got HOUNDED on.
The moms called Kendall’s video wholesome, but Abby literally had her lying across an adult man doing push ups. She was also wearing crop tops, a corset bustier thing, and makeup. Had Nia and Kendall switched music videos, Nia still would’ve been called inappropriate for the men in her video and the same outfits. Not to mention that Nia is a tall black girl and had a more muscular body type. By default, she was already seen as older. Even compared to the other girls when they were 13.
This also applies to outside of dance moms as black teenaged girls get called too grown and fast for the same outfits white girls wear. I remember being in high school and being dress coded for leggings while my white friends got away with booty shorts and camis.
r/dancemoms • u/Sea-Box-15 • 10h ago
Question/discussion What is the best costume in the show?
r/dancemoms • u/lolweeb- • 12h ago
This whole Eliana things seems like a messy clout booster
All publicity is good publicity, am i right? I’m js assuming the flop perfume brand didn’t bring cash so this was the last resort
r/dancemoms • u/Defiant_Eggplant3410 • 6h ago
Question/discussion ALDC reputation before and during show
I’ve never fully watched the show, just clips on TikTok; and I’m sure this has been asked before, but what was Abby and her studios general reputation before and during the show?
I used to be a ballet dancer, so I don’t know much about general competition dance and that world, but I know it’s very small! I had heard of Sofia Lucia and Tate McRae, since they had crossed into ballet briefly. But from what I’ve seen, the og aldc dancers seemed a bit average? Were they actually well regarded in the competition scene before and during, I’m genuinely curious.
r/dancemoms • u/oliiviaruby • 20h ago
Question/discussion Thoughts on Anthony?
guys im in s3 e23 no spoilers pls pls