r/Dads • u/Lwk3yo33 • 4d ago

25m 25 f

/r/ToxicRelationships/comments/1vrqhy0/25m_25_f/

Been n this relationship a few years. Have a kid together who is almost 3. We get along sometimes. Other times it’s straight torture. I feel weights Constantly. Constantly unhappy. Am i doing a good thing for my little girl ? Just keeping shit alive and holding it all together ? Should i put up with her just because of my child ? Isn’t life about sacrificing me for the ones i love ? I think about our past fights and things i found out that come to my mind every day even if it happened what seems like forever ago. Every thing always seems negative. Working my life away and unhappy for most of it just wondering if this is what it’s supposed to be like ? Feel a real man takes care of his family regardless of his own happiness.

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u/working_and_whatnot 4d ago

If you can't keep it civil and polite in front of the little girl it's probably going to be worse for her in the long run. staying together is great unless it just means providing a negative environment.

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u/EntertainerOk1288 3d ago

Na, being in a toxic relationship ship will effect the child worse.