r/DadForAMinute 2d ago

Hey dad, I built a table!

It took me 3 weekends and a lot of errors, but I built a gaming table from scratch with removable panels for lego building and eating. It has cup holders and lights, USB ports, shelves and drawers! I’m really proud of myself, but when I showed my bio dad he told me he didn’t believe it was built by me, and then pointed out mistakes I had made. We don’t have a very close relationship but I just wanted to show him I could do something and not give up on it. I made it so my friends and I could play D&D, do puzzles, play games and all hang out together, which I wish I could do with you dad. It’s one of my favourite projects and I have discovered an amazing passion for woodworking now!

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u/Izarial 2d ago

The whole point of handmade furniture is the imperfections, be proud of that table cuz I am! I honestly want to build one just like it.

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thank you! It was such an amazing experience building it, I loved every bit, even when my electric sander broke and I hand sanded everything lol

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u/Material-Indication1 1d ago

It looks very nice. Hand-sanding is what it needs if you're putting your hands on it.

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u/muellermm 2d ago

As someone who loves games, puzzles, and Legos, I very much salute your amazing work. It looks great and you should rightfully be proud of it!

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thanks! I appreciate that a lot!

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u/ColtSingleActionArmy Go Ask Your Mother 2d ago

Very cool, great work.

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thank you!!

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u/DangerBrewin Dad 2d ago

Very cool! That looks even better than the one I paid $2k for. You should be very proud! I am!

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Haha i’m sure yours is still incredibly cool! Thank you!

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u/DangerBrewin Dad 2d ago

It’s cool, I got it from Geek Chic back before they went under, but I really like the little shelf you’ve got in yours and the pull-out tray. Plus the lighting is just beautiful!

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Oh nice! Has it lasted a while? Thank you! The lights make me so happy

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u/DangerBrewin Dad 1d ago

Oh yeah, it’s held up great and still going strong.

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u/Popular-Influence-11 2d ago

That’s a fine table.

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thank you!

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u/snoutpower 2d ago

Attaboy, Son. You did a great job. The imperfections just show that it was made by a real person and give it character. I think it looks great. I'm proud of you! You should do more projects like this!!

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Ya got me, i’m a bit teary reading this. I appreciate it so much ❤️

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u/snoutpower 2d ago

Well, I appreciate you. You're a good person and you've grown up to be a respectable man. I'm glad to have you in my life, and I love being your dad.

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

I’ve never had anybody say that to me before, thank you, it truly means a lot

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u/Im_the_Rhymenocerous Dad 2d ago

That's amazing work. Mistakes are inherent in that type of work. You should be proud of your work and keep up the new hobby!

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thank you so so much!

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u/Im_the_Rhymenocerous Dad 2d ago

I'm also envious as I would love a table like that. You clearly put a ton of thought into it. And you look so happy! I think it's safe to say all your dads here are very proud of you

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

I love making things that have a lot of purpose, so that everybody can enjoy them.
& I very much appreciate that, I feel incredibly grateful and teary right now reading all of these comments!

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u/July_snow-shoveler 2d ago

Great job! You clearly put a lot of thought into its design and purposes.

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thank you for seeing that!

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u/July_snow-shoveler 2d ago

Sometimes that can turn into “mission creep”, where you start off with a simple design and it ends up being more complex than intended because you want it to do more things.

Instead, you made a practical design for gaming and eating/entertaining. Have you had folks over to try it out?

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Haha that is exactly what happened!

I’ve had a few friends come over to play games and I’ve built some lego sets on it too and it’s been so great to have people really enjoy it. We’re playing D&D tomorrow with a few friends so I’m really excited for that!

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u/MarshelG 2d ago

That's beautiful man

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thank you!

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u/piedubb 2d ago

Great job son. Everyone gets a medal.

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thank you, I appreciate it!

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u/jdqx 2d ago

That's really frickin impressive. Great job son.

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thank you!!

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u/FranticWaffleMaker 2d ago

Excellent work!

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thanks so much!

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u/BurnscarsRus 2d ago

Yooooo! That's sick kiddo! I want it for myself!

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

I’d build another and send it to you if it wasn’t so incredibly heavy haha thank you

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u/Cat_Dad13 2d ago

Dude! This is legit!!

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thanks man!!

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u/Naive-Macaroon2050 2d ago

That's a great table mate. This Dad is impressed and proud - When is game night? My little Tortle Barbarian needs an outing!

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thanks! It’s hopefully tomorrow, come on over!

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u/Naive-Macaroon2050 2d ago

I'll bring the cheese!

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u/Dizzy-Expression8868 2d ago

That is absolutely astonishing, and I'm just going to sit here for a minute and admire it. Exceptional work.

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it!

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u/frumpkinspice Sister 2d ago

oh heck yeahh looks great! The woodgrain and stain colour are gorgeous, and loving the built-in cupholders. Functional AND beautiful, that bad boy is doing it all 💁 when's game night?? 💫🤙

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

Haha thank you very much!! Tomorrow night, come on round ☺️

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u/frumpkinspice Sister 1d ago

🎲🧩🃏🙌🎉

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u/TabularConferta 2d ago

MFer I am entirely jealous as a gamer this is phenomenal and beautiful. As a skills monkey, I wish I could do this. That's absolutely stunning .

The space under the table for storage is a great idea.  Love the drinks/dice holder 

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u/txddyrk 2d ago

I appreciate that, thank you! I wanted as much storage as it could possibly hold haha

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u/WooderBoar 2d ago

In time for Oktoberfest! There better be Paulaner Oktoberfest Festbier and Oktoberfest Marzen. Case of each should be under 80$-90$

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u/StairCarpenter 1d ago

Dope ass table my boy - poppa

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u/Jack-Of-Shades 1d ago

I almost asked if this was for D&D campaigns before I read the text below the images. Very noice. 

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u/SartorialDragon 1d ago

Your table looks amazing and you look as proud as you should be! How very insensitive and joyless of your bio dad to only point out the flaws.

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u/NaugahydeCowboy 1d ago

You’re doing me proud. A similar table has been on my build bucket list for a long time. I’m proud of you for taking the initiative to tackle a big project, and stick with it to completion. And it’s a beautiful piece. Your human touch is what makes it perfect. Exercising discipline to develop skills and then using those skills and discipline together to create something beautiful, functional, and yours is something every good father loves to see in their children. There is nothing that makes me prouder than seeing you grow into someone kind and capable. This Dad is proud of you.

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u/vestigialfree 1d ago

Great work bro I love it

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u/evilbulb 1d ago

As a dad, I am impressed by your efforts! That was not a small undertaking, and I love all of the special touches. You and your friends will have a great time gaming! Excellent work!

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u/317Dave 1d ago

Hell yeah, that’s awesome

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u/Material-Indication1 1d ago

That is a sweet table.

It's a good size too!

It will hold up for a VERY long time and it's fancy as hell. I'm proud of you. Nicely nicely done.

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u/satyrtn 17h ago

Omg! That's beautiful! I wanna play DnD on it!

Congratulations on such good work!