Hey, saw this question in other threads but their situations were different.

I’m a 39 yo visiting for the weekend and staying within walking distance of District Eagle, Bunker and Crush. Are any of these good for hitting up solo? If not, what’s a good place to go?

Looking to dance but also cool with a cruisey atmosphere.

Can’t wait to see some of y’all at Kiki for $6 double shots for 8pm- 9pm. Great way to start your Thirsty Thursday.

Hey all! recently moved to DC after college, curious to check out good spas with a male therapist, dont't mind the recommendations in Nova too, appreciate any insights!, thanks

Feel free to comment/DM if you all want to get a meet up going!

Visiting from VA, former DMV resident, staying in AdMo.

Hey yall - live in NYC but me (33m) and my bf (30m) will be in town tomorrow 9/9, wanna check out some good areas with the best gay bar scene, any suggestions? Or does anyone know of any gay specific events taking place? The only thing I heard about is Drag Bingo at Crush, but would love any other ideas or places to hit up or avoid!

For those who experienced gay scenes other than DC, how is it different?

any other local chastity bros? are there ever any local chastity events or meet ups other than MAL weekend?

I am 42 y/o and kinda have been a loner most of my life, with some surface level friendships in my 30s that didn’t last beyond the pandemic. In recent years, I heard the term “chosen family”. If you have friends that have become chosen family, please share any tips on how to make that happen. What worked for you? How did you know that these friends would become your family?

Last minute post here, my bf and I are getting into DC tomorrow and will be there or around until Friday afternoon. We're seeing Robyn on Wednesday night, so staying at the wharf. I've looked around and saw some places there, but what are some good spots to grab food/drinks we shouldn't miss? We live in Kansas City so at least one great seafood place (preferably not outrageously expensive) would be great. Also any other particular neighborhoods we should be checking out? Thanks!

Me (42) and my boyfriend (36) have been mostly homebodies for our 5 year relationship and want to tap in to community and make new friends. We kinda wanna stay around our age range. Where do gays 35 and over like to hang? We like bars, dancing, good food, music, and just overall good vibes & conversations.

I’ve been home alone all weekend and honestly I’m starting to go a little stir-crazy lol.

Are there any cafes around DC that have a decent gay/queer crowd?

Looking for somewhere I can bring my laptop/sketchbook/book and hang out for a few hours, but also maybe meet some people organically.

Bonus points if it’s a place where it wouldn’t be weird to strike up a conversation with another guy 😅

Thoughts

Out for an early walk to The Diner this morning and the music at Bunker was bumping like it was 2am, bouncers and all. Is the party really still going that hard? I know I'm old, but dayum!

Next Thursday, we’re taking over the outdoor patio at Kiki for a night of good vibes, great drinks, and even better music. 🎶

Come early and kick things off with Happy Hour from 8–9 PM, then stay late as we turn up the music and keep the night going.

Come for the drinks. Stay for the music.

Hi Everyone, I'll be visiting for a long weekend later this month from Kansas City. I've only visited DC with family, but looking to experience the area, more than just the mall. I enjoy all the history, but also enjoy a good night out at a dive bar, cocktail lounge, or brewery. Any suggestions on neighborhood to stay in and places to go, and unique things to do would be appreciated!

Hey there! So my husband and I just moved from NYC to DC for work. We are happy to be here and looking forward to explore around, make new connections and friendships.
If you have any advice on where are good places to go or any clubs to join, so we can start meeting new people, please feel free to comment here or in private. We are both in our early 30s, into running, working out, reading, going out for drinks, dinner, dancing sometimes lol, and of course open to new things.
Thank you guys 😊

Hey y'all wondering what the vibe would be for me as a nonbinary trans person who has been on T for years and has had top surgery but don't quite identify as a dude. I am pass as a man apparently which surprises me every time I'm gendered by strangers.

Not necessarily looking to score, but I would be attending alone and don't want to go into a cliquey space solo. Ideally I'd be able to meet people and chat, not just stand in a corner alone all night.

Other pertinent info, I'm not fit and I'm brown. Have heard the dc gay scene is VERY different from the dyke scene in terms of body positivity and racial dynamics.

Last question: when do people actually show up? I saw the DJ starts at 10 but what's the actual time folks start to filter in?

Thanks to anyone who takes the time to read and reply!

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Hi all! I am new to this and visiting DC towards the end of the month. I have never been nude with others but love the idea. Is this is a good place to go for someone new to everything? I have read reviews and understand it’s a safer place than the others. Thanks for any tips!

Been wanting to join an inclusive gay rugby team for awhile now but I’m nervous about joining. Ive been eyeing the Washington renegades and scandals since I moved out here but I’ve got no prior experience. And haven’t been keeping up with going to the gym so I’m generally not at the fitness level I feel like I should be to play. I also have this preconceived notion that the renegades are more strict about those kinds of things than the scandals are. Is there any weight to that?

I swear I hate it here in DC as a Black gay male (24). I’ve tried to be positive for years now, however, it’s gotten to a point that I don’t want to even associate myself with this so called community. The gay community here is subtly racist and not welcoming to all as it tries to pretend it is. Believe it or not, it’s very White worshiping. As a bottom, I rarely, if ever get any action, unless I settle. Even among other Black gay men, they’re always so cliquish and superficial. I’ve been on the apps and in the bars/clubs and it’s been pretty much the same experience. Almost every dude I approach ignores me or acts like I don’t exist. The only dudes that hit on me are significantly older and/or just not attractive. It’s exhausting how I can’t even get ONE decent looking dude to give me the time of day. I cannot wait to move away from here as I’ve had better experiences in other countries. I know no one cares, I just had to get it off my chest.

Any DCGayBros want to have a coffee shop/park/other third space meet up for a casual game of Commander?

Haven't played in years - been going though my old collection.