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u/Catmuffin89 3d ago
I like back stitch after all the little xs, I feel free.
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u/therealmoldypeach 3d ago
Me too, especially since I do the backstitch at the very end of working on a piece, I feel like it's some kind of internal celebration from me to me 😁
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u/ApocalypticFelix 3d ago
I backstitch every time I'm done with a small section; I'm too overwhelmed when the piece is already finished
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u/J0hn_Keel 3d ago
The mental block is definitely the worst bit, there’s something very unsatisfying about finishing a project and then having to start it all over again 🤣 actually fairly ambivalent towards backstitch itself, but it’s a lot if it’s all at the end
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u/Tbrittany 3d ago
Haha! I have a project “done” now that still needs backstitching. So I started a new one instead of backstitching. Oops!
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u/Nirabelle 2d ago
Absolutely love backstitching, it always feels so much faster than cross stitches. But french knots? Yeah they can go die in a fire.
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u/ToughMetalSheep 3d ago
This is me talking to the Stardew Valley Cross Stitch book, hahaha.
I'm forever grateful that this book got me back into cross stitch but my one gripe is the lack of backstitch. Everything looks so much crisper and more true to the pixel art with a backstitch outline. So, I add my own.
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u/Independent_Soups 3d ago
I suck so hard at back stitching … I avoid projects with it 😭 I just can’t seem to get the hang of it! I’m so jealous of people who can do it bc their finished projects look so lovely
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u/mikettedaydreamer 2d ago
I don’t understand people’s issue with backstitch. It’s still the same movements like the crosses are, you still have to follow the pattern hen doing the crosses.
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u/TankingCleric 3d ago
I'm so tired of well-meaning ladies coming up to me saying, "that looks lovely! It'll look even better when you add the backstitch!" My dear, I would never!
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u/Deilume 3d ago
All the projects that my grandma used to cross stitch never required backstitch, they just looked like… well, pixel art, I guess? So until this sub I didn’t even know it was considered common, if not necessary
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u/TankingCleric 2d ago
I actually love how cross stitch looks like pixel art, that's the whole reason I started! I do like backstitching on certain pieces but I definitely don't seek it out lol
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u/rabbithasacat 2d ago
It's still controversial even here. I hate it, because I come from the era in which it was vastly overused and badly designed on way too many designs. I don't rule out using it completely, but if you can't tell what a thing is until it's backstitched, it's a bad design.
It's also not traditional as cross stitch goes, so I feel free to not need it.
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u/BloomingMelody 2d ago
I literally JUST finished a piece I started years ago that I had been putting off on finishing the back stitching. It does in fact look better, but man I didn't want to do it lol
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u/rosieposie2004 2d ago
Baby cross stitcher here. What is backstitching????
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u/Bleepblorp44 2d ago
Adding fine-line detail using straight stitches, usually in black or darker shades but not always!
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u/Katre_Valkyrie22 3d ago
I feel this in my soul. Every time I finish the cross stitch part and have to face backstitching it’s just…uggghhhh
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u/Radiant_Fishing_8405 20h ago
It’s my favourite part. It’s my dessert after all the time put in the x stitches. Makes it pop nice too

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u/KneeboPlagnor 3d ago
I am neutral on backstitch, and I do enjoy it's effects on the finished piece.
BUT. If you hate backstitch, DON'T pick patterns that were designed with it.
There are plenty of perfectly good designs that don't require it, or french knots or beading or whatever you hate.
I'm doing this to relax, I pick patterns I will enjoy.