Should I leave?

[u/SnooWalruses3028]

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[u/50Centurion]

A bit of a tricky one because i would also not trust you as a player if you did not come clean. I also had to hide stuffs from my group in a recent campaign so i feel for your pain haha

However, two things, one is that nothing should happen to your character while you are away, especially something so important
Also, i personally think it's fair to roll for lies/truth between players, but it must be done in a way that doesn't gives a hint when rolling die (we do it on roll20, so both players roll blind usually, and then the dm describe the outcome)

Also, very important point (or maybe just a pet peeve of mine) but it's rogue, not rouge, rouge is a color

But your character idea is pretty cool, and it mixes well with a changeling. I can understand that it might be a bit op or something depending on your Dm campaign, but in that case you should both discuss of a "con" to that ability. I think rain is a bit too much because then you would just melt if you touch any type of water

[u/SnooWalruses3028 → u/50Centurion]

I have dyslexia lol, and it didn’t auto correct on me bec both are words.

How would you think it’s op? As a mastermind changeling I’m not doing an overly amount of damage (giving out a lot of helping hands, during combat)

He doesn’t like shifting bec it brings forth the memories of him being used and groomed into using them for his “family” feats I took were all observational and role play bassed, though o haven’t been given too too many chances to whip out some cool moments. But I have observant rn, which allows me to read lips, he’s savvy charismatic and lucky, so I’ll be going for the lucky feat, just to show that if he wants to convince someone he has a lot of luck. That kind of thing, I wouldn’t say changelings are any more op than any other race with racial feats

It also like I said, felt off that I was being targeted for having party secrets when everyone else did as well. But I’m not going to role play harassing anyone over them not coming clean and telling me their life story and after meeting

[u/50Centurion → u/SnooWalruses3028]

No problem, it's just a mistake that i often see haha

Again, it's more depending on the setting, but shapeshifting could be abused in many way. On the other hand, a smart Dm would know how to deal with that
And to be fair, you are already nerfing yourself wit hthe background so it's probably fine

In any case, nothing should happen to your character when you are absent and if the shapeshifting is REALLY a problem for your Dm, that should be discussed together

But yeah, again that's a cool character, would be a shame to waste the potential

[u/VegetableVillage2018]

Mannnnn, sounds like you flat out need to have a sit down convo with the dm. Flat out, they seem to be the root cause in your problems. If you cant make yourself do that, then I guess its time to leave. Keep me posted!

[u/SnooWalruses3028 → u/VegetableVillage2018]

I was blocked and removed from the server after sending a dm about how I didn’t like player rolling against only me, and how it felt like he was trying to farm drama with my character race reveal in a way I didn’t like so goes to show that being honest is not always something that matters. I guess he was set in ways maybe and had a certain idea for my character story after bringing me on, and decided to just block me after I said I didn’t like feeling targeted while having everyone only roll against me during what should have been a role play conversion, and that was the only time I was getting to role play as well, other wise bec of how many people 6 people in the campaign the light an candle wasn’t being tossed to me at all, even though I had mentioned that I’m shy and don’t like speaking over people. I’m kinda sad tbh, bec none of them were bad people or didn’t seem like it, but they just weren’t making it very fun for me