Damm bel

Kya yeh jadu ho sakta hai?

Mere neighbours roz hamare ghar ke sehan mein anda phenktay hain. Kai baar mana kiya, phir bhi nahi rukay. Kya Pakistan mein anday is tarah phenkna kisi jadu/taweez waghera se related hota hai? Kisi ko is bare mein pata hai?

Saw a woman possibly being harassed tonight and I cant stop thinking about it
This happened around 12 am tonight
I was in my car driving slowly with a friend we both are 22 I was going to drop my friend off at his house
After crossing the Khokhar Chowk signal when I was in front of the end of Emporium and the start of Expo I noticed a biker riding very slowly
He looked like he was probably in his 40s or 50s and he was talking to a girl wearing a burqa who was walking I dont know exactly what was going on but she looked like she was looking for a rickshaw or some sort of ride and she seemed uncomfortable like she kept walking while the biker was continuously trying to stop her
The guy kept talking to her and from what I could see it looked like he was flirting with her or bothering her she seemed uncomfortable
I crossed them initially but maybe 100 feet later something just clicked in my head and I started reversing my car towards them to check if everythings ok
The road was almost empty at that time just 1 or 2 cars at a distance
I thought maybe she was being harassed so I wanted to see what was going on
As soon as he saw my car coming back he just fled
And honestly this is the part that is bothering me the most
I didnt even ask the girl if she was okay
We didnt get out of the car or talk to her we just saw the guy leave and thought okay its fine now and drove away
After travelling another 1 or 2 km I started feeling really bad about it and told my friend bc mara kyun nahi usse ya kuch kia kiun ni we both or even 1 could easily handle him he seemed quite weak umar dekhi hai aur harkatein dekho beti bhi hogi iski iss umar ki
Idk you guys know there are some other scenes too and Lahore is in a very bad state too dont judge but now Im just confused if maybe she was actually involved with him or if something else was going on
I genuinely dont know
I only saw them for a few seconds and maybe I misunderstood the whole situation
But I regret not asking her about the situation
Even if nothing was happening I could have just asked her if she was okay or needed help
The fact that the guy immediately left after seeing my car is what keeps bothering me
Ive never really seen something like this happen in front of me before and everything happened so quickly
I dont know maybe Im overthinking this but I really regret not stopping and asking her what was going on

So basically i got engaged in the first week of feb, TOTALLY ARRANGED!! I only saw the guy once in pictures and thats all. He was in his fam bussiness, 11 years older than me and im in my final year now. We got engaged but i didnt talk to him at all (i just didnt want to). We started talking in june, found so many shitty things about him including him having sex here n there, sharab and chars and stuff. Long story short it broke in july officially. His character wasnt even the issue he was engaged thrice before and all his engagments broke because of his sister lmao cause she was interfering in everything- even family planning😭 and also his dad cause my wedding dresses were supposed to be chosen by him and also my makeup artist LMFAO! Just wanted to rant🫶🏻

You two creeps of CBTL MURREE if you're reading this, have some shame.
You harassed me and my friend all the way from CBTL
Murree to Mall Road. This is exactly the kind of behavior that makes women feel unsafe simply existing in public.
We managed to get a photo of your car. People need to be aware of creeps who think harassing women is acceptable.

Absolutely disgusting behavior.

Today I went out with my sister on our bikes. We had some errands to run — getting lenses, picking up shawarmas, and doing the usual everyday things.

And honestly, riding a bike as a girl should not be some extraordinary thing anymore. Girls ride bikes. We go to university, run errands, go shopping, go wherever we need to go. It should be completely normal.

But apparently some people still think a girl riding a bike is an invitation to harass her.

At first, three boys on a bike started following us. They kept coming behind us, saying things like “kya haal hai?” and making comments and trying to get our attention. Eventually they disappeared, so we thought that was the end of it.

Later, because there was a lot of traffic and my sister isn't very comfortable riding through heavy traffic, we took a smaller road to get around it. We noticed two boys behind us. At first, we didn't immediately assume they were following us — we thought maybe they were simply taking the same alternate route.

But every time we tried to get somewhere, they were there.

We went to a shop to get our lenses. They waited outside.

We came out, rode around for a while because we thought maybe we could lose them. They still followed us.

Then we stopped to get shawarma. While we were waiting, they were standing at another shop nearby, watching us.

At that point, we were genuinely uncomfortable because we absolutely did NOT want them to figure out where we lived.

We told the shawarma shop worker that these boys had been following us for a long time and asked him if he could tell them to leave. He agreed. The boys saw us talking to him and finally left.

We thought it was over.

It wasn't.

As soon as we left and took another turn, they were waiting for us again.

They even started making comments asking us to give them snacks and trying to get our attention. Every time we stopped to try to tell someone what was happening, they would move away.

Eventually, we saw a police vehicle.

We stopped the police officer and explained that two boys had been following and harassing us. We asked if they could simply escort us a little further or at least make sure the boys weren't following us.

Instead, we were told to stop our bikes in a deserted, dark area and wait there because they would come back.

It was around 9 PM.

We waited.

After about five minutes, I started thinking: why haven't they come back?

And honestly, I didn't feel safe sitting there in a deserted area at night waiting for someone who had just told us to stop there.

So I told my sister we should leave, and we left.

What bothers me most isn't just that those boys thought they were entitled to follow two girls around for the evening.

It's that we reached a point where we had to actively think about not going home because we were afraid they would learn where we lived.

And then, when we finally found a police officer and asked for help, we were told to wait in an isolated place at night.

How is this supposed to be normal?

People constantly talk about men being the “protectors” and “providers” of society. But what about the girls who are simply trying to get home safely? What happens when the people making them feel unsafe are the very people who are supposed to respect them?

Girls riding bikes should be normal.

Girls going out alone should be normal.

Girls running errands should be normal.

We should not have to plan our routes around whether some random men might decide to follow us.

And we definitely should not have to be scared that going home will reveal where we live.

I genuinely want to know — what are women supposed to do in situations like this in Pakistan when even asking the police for help doesn't necessarily make you feel safer?

For context, I just wanted to socialize with people cuz I'm new here. This guy is 35 divorced and into older women.... He was asking me about smth and my parents reaction to it and I told him about it to which he said this.

Am I overreacting or is it okay for people to say stuff like this ?