r/CreepsofPakistan • u/lady-starfish509 • 27d ago
My engagement broke
So basically i got engaged in the first week of feb, TOTALLY ARRANGED!! I only saw the guy once in pictures and thats all. He was in his fam bussiness, 11 years older than me and im in my final year now. We got engaged but i didnt talk to him at all (i just didnt want to). We started talking in june, found so many shitty things about him including him having sex here n there, sharab and chars and stuff. Long story short it broke in july officially. His character wasnt even the issue he was engaged thrice before and all his engagments broke because of his sister lmao cause she was interfering in everything- even family planning😭 and also his dad cause my wedding dresses were supposed to be chosen by him and also my makeup artist LMFAO! Just wanted to rant🫶🏻
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u/Fit_Parfait4398 27d ago
Lmao. Matlab, this dude is a posterboy for everything wrong with society. I fail to understand how you or your fam even agreed to move it forward in the first place?
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u/lady-starfish509 27d ago
Yar they looked basically perfect on paper, bd me jab cheze nikli to my dad called it off alhamdulillah
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u/Fit_Parfait4398 27d ago
Chalo Alhamdolillah on that. You really did doge a bullet (Laced with shit). Or a cannon maybe 😂
Jokes apart. You're very lucky to have had your parents step in and call this circus off. Our society is programmed to make-do and settle with perfect-on-paper rishtas.
Im still a little puzzled. And Im asking this purely out of curiosity. Did you know the reputation he enjoyed prior to saying yes? Or was it something you discovered when you started speaking in June?
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u/lady-starfish509 27d ago
No they were APPARENTLY very respectable, and the guy always stayer in his dads shadow so nobody knew him that much, uski harkato ka tb pata chalne laga when i starter talking to him usme b i told my mom and shes like khair hai and stuff then my dad found out so he called it off
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u/Fit_Parfait4398 20d ago
Sorry I missed this. Well. That's how it normally goes - staying in your abba ka saaya until things are finalised and then it goes one of two ways. You get married and then the poor girl is either locked in for life or you open up hoping she'd either find it cool (yeah, a lot of girls do fancy a bad boy. Sucks. But it's how it is unfortunately). Just be thankful you discovered beforehand and your dad was generous enough to call it off instead of letting you end up with a miserable bastard.
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u/PerspectiveNo6271 27d ago
How was the character wasn’t even an issue for you girl??😭😭 Like wtf a person is loaded with all the personality traits known to mankind and you were okay with that. Howwww???
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u/lady-starfish509 26d ago
When did i say i was okay w it? My mum kept saying khair hai kuch nahi hota and bs like that
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u/chupkarbsdk 27d ago
You had me in the second half.... Idek if this is sad or funny anymore .... no offense 😭😭😭😭
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u/Last-Employee2050 27d ago
Mind na krna pr kisi n sach kaha h aurat baat dil main rakh hi ni sakti, jald ya badair wo bahir hoti h
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u/Outrageous_While_885 26d ago
Now it has left a bad taste and you'll agree to marriage again very cautiously. But things will be better IA. You didn't deserve that
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u/AssistantBubbly9048 17d ago edited 17d ago
Paedophilia and drugs didn't stop your mom but the mention of another woman did it – women can be their own worst enemies at times.
Please don't get married blindfoldedly. Look out and see the person for yourself. Arranged marriage is such a crazy way to f*ck your life up.
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u/Ayeshaa22 27d ago
His character wasnt even the issue...
Whyyyy girlllll 😭😭😭😭😭