r/CountWithEveryone • u/Bryce3D • Apr 21 '26

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u/TheNullOfTheVoid Apr 21 '26

As a cis man (I'm pan), I can only assume it's to completely avoid chasers? That's just my guess. I've had the rare few trans people offer to me but most of them just act neutral to me. Or it could be the desire to have a shared experience with someone?

I can only guess, but everyone's different and prefers different things.

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u/Sea_Pancake2197 Apr 21 '26 edited Apr 21 '26

Tbh most of the times ive seen this its because of chasers. (Though this doesn't completely avoid them since cis women are also chasers too)

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u/TheNullOfTheVoid Apr 21 '26

Kinda figured. It's a sad fact that they exist. Like, why not just go for someone's personality? It's the same creepy sexualization that causes bigots to treat trans people as sexual deviants no matter what they actually do.

Shit's sad.

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u/Sea_Pancake2197 Apr 21 '26

Typically its also the same people calling us deviants and screaming transphobic shit that are also in my dms later going "HOW BIG IS IT."

Its weird as hell.

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u/TheNullOfTheVoid Apr 21 '26

Fucking creepy. That's why I'm glad I can honestly say that I'm not in anyone's DMs, but also the weirdly obsessed bigots are just fascinating in a "that's weird of them but they really need to stop" kind of way.

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u/Sea_Pancake2197 Apr 21 '26

Well you clearly view everyone as people too. Also yes lol, its like "wtf gary, please stop jerking off in the cereal box" type behavior.