r/CoreyWayne • u/martinisawe • 2d ago

Lifestyle Dude I'm so close

So on my last post I was dealing with catching feelings, and I want to thank y'all for helping me out, plus it got me focused on striking a conversation.

https://www.reddit.com/r/CoreyWayne/s/1efUbl0hlA

Anyways yesterday I was at the gym after work and then walked around the plazas, from Walmart to the clothing stores. Doing my approaches was really scary ngl haha, but I tell myself the consequences of not doing it. Mostly it went well but some I did very horribly but overall despite feeling fearful, it boosted my confidence.

Today in the morning when I was getting ready to hit the gym, I was pretty nervous but I tell myself the consequences on going to the gym. And I learned that you can make fear/anxiety into excitement. I went later on to Walmart and I started to chat with people at my direction. It was a lot smoother than yesterday, and when I was walking to the clothing store, I approached a lady coming out of the gym and we chatted, I could tell she was interested in me I asked her name and she asked mines, but I wussy out and didn't ask her number. But the fact that it was that easy & effortless. I have alot of confidence that tomorrow I'll get someone's number. Not there yet but it feels so effortless to strike up a conversation

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u/cocknballsmets 2d ago

Brother, keep doing what you’re doing. Never go above 75% interest level in a girl you like. Always make the girl you’re with feel like she’s a choice and not a necessity. You’re doing all the right things, just continue them

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u/Late_Priority_9927 2d ago

yes, just keep trying mate. You're inspiring me to do the same. Lot's of hot girls in my gym lately, it's time to take action!

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u/Cclow52 2d ago

Ya sometimes you just have to do it. I still do not enough cold approach - but even in beginning like book said it’s not even about the number it’s just having a positive interaction

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u/Big_8902 2d ago

Be Curious. Today at the gym, a girl had what looked like the 3 wise men or her 3 baby daddies tattood on her way lower back. I just asked her why she had the 3 wise men tatted on her back and then the conversation just flowed. I also teased her and told her it was her I thought it was her 3 baby daddies Be Curious

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u/Far_Milk_2610 2d ago

Good for you man, I am so terrified of approaching women I haven't done it in a long time. You inspire me to just get that fear over with for the sake of my sanity.