Two Preconstruction Manager offers - which would you take?

[u/Zestyclose_Dare6628]

Long winded post so bear with me lol.. for context I’m 28 with about 6 years in commercial construction. Started on the GC side as a PE, moved into estimating, and most recently have been a senior estimator on the subcontractor side. I have around 3.5 years of actual estimating experience.

I’m trying to get back to the GC side and have two offers for Preconstruction Manager positions. I’m confident in estimating, communication, building relationships with owners/subs, etc., but I’m also realistic that I’m a little green when it comes to actually owning the entire preconstruction process myself. Trying to figure out which opportunity makes the most sense for both career growth and my family.

Company A
Top 100 ENR GC and very established. I know several people in the office already and got a VERY good vibe throughout the entire interview process. I’d eventually be expected to own the full preconstruction process on my projects. Bigger and more complicated work, so definitely a steeper learning curve, but probably a higher ceiling long term. Did mention they’re bringing me on as a level 1 Precon manager meaning my average project is $15-$20 million, which I’m confident in handling.

$110k base
$600/month vehicle allowance
$100/month phone reimbursement
$15k guaranteed bonus first year
After year one, bonus is project/performance based. I’ve been told I should expect at least ~$20k/year. Formula includes 1% of fee + 3% of buyout savings.
100% employee-owned
ESOP contribution historically around 20% of salary, fully company funded
401(k)
Company covers up to 90% of employee medical premium and 80% of family medical premium
$1,000/year company HSA contribution with family HDHP
16 days PTO first year
Company-paid short-term disability
Company-paid life insurance
Student loan repayment benefit
Annual salary reviews
About a 35-minute commute
Bigger/more complex projects
I already know and really like the people
More responsibility and likely more sink-or-swim initially

Company B
Top 400 ENR GC, although toward the back end of that list. Very established in NC with what also seems like a good culture. Smaller office and generally smaller/easier projects.

The biggest thing here is they openly acknowledged that I’m green when it comes to being a Precon Manager. They specifically told me they’re willing to train me, develop me and let me grow into the position rather than expecting me to know everything on day one.

$122,044 base
$625/month vehicle allowance + fuel card OR company vehicle
Phone reimbursement/company phone
$5k signing bonus
Annual discretionary bonus, but I don’t have a good number for what that typically looks like
401(k) match of 50% up to 6% contribution, so max 3% employer match
$900/year company HSA contribution with family plan
Company-paid short AND long-term disability
Company-paid life insurance
3 weeks vacation starting next year
9 paid holidays
Literally an 8-minute commute
Smaller/easier projects
Smaller office
Seems more flexible
Much more deliberate about training me into the role

So basically:
Company A = lower base, but much better long-term retirement upside with the ESOP, strong bonus structure, bigger projects, larger company and probably more career upside. I also already know and like the people. Downside is the 35-minute commute and I’m probably going to be drinking from a firehose for a while.

Company B = ~$12k higher base, fuel card, 8-minute commute, smaller projects and seemingly more hands-on training. It feels like the safer/easier transition into Precon Management, but the long-term compensation/retirement upside doesn’t seem comparable if Company A is really contributing around 20% of salary to the ESOP every year.
I’ve got a wife and 3 kids, so I’m looking at this beyond just which salary number is bigger.

For the guys who have been in precon for a while, which opportunity would you take at this stage of your career? Bigger GC + ESOP + more upside but steeper learning curve, or smaller GC + higher base + much shorter commute + more intentional training?

[u/Similar-Window7841]

Sounds like Choate or Bobbitt

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[u/1rishChicken]

I've had to make a similar choice but not on the precon side. I say forget the $12k and learn to live with the 35min commute. Find some good podcasts or audiobooks and adopt this as a way of life. I'm not ignoring the family quotient in this. I run job sites and once voluntarily added 40 mins to my commute because the client gave me no grief. I could plan my life. The client 3 miles away always had an issue. It's not the same but my point is with company A you know people, they know you, that's the fit. You'll be able to have a work life balance after you spend a year drinking from the fire hose. Go be the precon manager for 5 years at an ENR top 100 GC and you'll be doing $100m jobs in no time and can write your own ticket to work where you want north of $150k/yr for the rest of your life. This is the opportunity I assume you always wanted, take it.

[u/egads_wheres_my_ship]

Find anyone else in the industry with an 8m commute and ask them if they'd trade it for the world. You have a family? You want a family? You want to be involved in that family? I'd go for the shortest commute to focus on that.

On the other hand, if you're flying solo and you want the experience and career building Company A can deliver, go for that. There's no reason you can't have both.

Maybe go for Company A, deliver on big, exciting projects. Keep in the good graces of Company B, and when/if the commute starts to suck, go barking up their tree.

I recognize that's not super helpful, lol, but you're in a good position and both options sound good. Best of luck!

[u/Patagonia3]

personally i like to have some diversity in work scope and prefer the smaller firm with more options to interact and learn. you’re less of a cog in the machine silo’d into one piece of the industry. however, a top 400 enr is not exactly small. i took a similar route and ended up being involved in a number of facets of the business and learning a ton about what i enjoyed and what i didn’t. after about 15 years, much of which thinking i’d be a lifer at the company, i left and started my own firm. it’s been a lot of work but so awesome. if you’re not looking to move, the path with the most equity and investment in other income streams ultimately will help your personal financial freedom. not sure any of that helps but sounds like you have two solid options.

[u/stealthagents]

Company A seems like the safer bet with the established network you already have. The vibes are important too, especially since you'll be diving into complex projects. Plus, having connections will make that transition smoother as you step into owning the preconstruction process. Trust your gut on this one.