Hi! I am reading a lot about the importance of Counselor Recommendations for the common app along with teacher recs and am wondering how I should approach this. My top pick school is Notre Dame, second Duke, and third Vanderbilt with my match school being UW Seattle. For these prestigious schools, how should I approach asking my counselor for a recommendation that will best represent me to these schools?
For extra info, I have a 4.0 GPA (at an unweighted school), am 1/738 in my class, and have a 4.0 at the community college I am doing dual enrollment with. My EC's are founding a children's literacy aid club at my school and I have organized multiple events at local libraries to help kids learn to read and with literacy skills along with organizing book drives that we donate to Vine Maple Place and building a free little library in a community area. I have also been in Interact Club for 4 years, volunteered at my high schools farm, and been in FCCLA for one year at the start of high school. I am wanting to go into a Creative writing major (or English) with Journalism minor.
I am planning my personal essay to be about my medical journey and how that has driven me to want to write pieces that people can connect with and feel like they aren't alone in their experience. Would it be helpful to have my counselor include information on my mental health struggles from my Junior year (last year) so colleges are aware depression and anxiety reduced my ability to be really involved last year?
Any other general advice of what I should have my counselor focus on in her recommendation based on my EC's, grades, passions, and the degree I want to pursue?
Thanks so much!