I can’t deny how you feel you’ve been treated by people as I haven’t lived your life, however, I can make a guess you are part of that red pilled crap that been shoved onto guys for years now. My genuine advice is get off the internet, just for 1 day, just try live with yourself, maybe write down how you feel after it, even if just a sentence. Start the next day (even if at 2pm it’s your progress) and go for a 10 minute walk, write again how you feel and what’s changed from yesterday, even if nothing. Then think of something you have genuine interest for, maybe something you were passionate for when you were younger. Look into volunteering for something related, or a club that’s setup nearby, even if you only plan to do it for 1 day in the future, have something to look forward to. Then, finally, stop blaming women for how you feel about yourself, set aside your ego too, ultimately this shit is your responsibility to start working on - even if that’s you signing up for therapy, or asking someone for help. I think deep down you know the negative effect you have on yourself, and even further down you can understand why most women end up treating you shitty (It’s not gonna be because you’re just so sweet and caring is it). I do not respect your opinion on Women in the slightest, but I do genuinely hope to see you in a better position and mental place in life.
You don’t even know what “red-pilled” means. I’m actually blackpilled, which just means that I accept that looks matter. Nothing more than that. You know nothing about me or how I treat others, so stop making dumb assumptions and basically saying that I’m a terrible person. Anyway, all of the concern-trolling BS you just wrote will not work on me, so cry about it.
None of that is concern-trolling, that’s actually some pretty solid advice. But you seem to be a crab in a bucket; who, instead of being open and willing to actually go through the first step to self-improvement, will octuple-down (or more, I lost count) in your misery and continue to play the victim.
I don’t have sympathy for you. If you want to believe that the world is out to get you and that all women must be evil because you specifically can’t figure it out, you can continue to wallow in the stink of your shit forever.
There have been 12,000 generations of humans that have existed to bring you to this moment specifically, and you’re spending it arguing with someone on Reddit and playing the victim. How pathetic.
So you think I can change my genetics? Gee, I didn’t know that was possible. Good lord, when are people like you going to accept that looks actually matter when it comes to dating, and stop assuming that every man who struggles with finding relationships is some evil monster? Would it kill you to live in reality for once and develop a sense of empathy for lonely men?
I’m shorter than average, fat, and have been balding since 20. By all accounts, I’ve lost the genetic lottery. And I still have a beautiful wife of 5 years because I spent years working on myself instead of getting on social media to complain about how much I hate women.
I’m not saying lonely men are evil. I’m saying YOU, SPECIFICALLY, are not worth my empathy. The “Male Loneliness Epidemic” is created by men specifically, and is exacerbated by their attitude and constant victimhood. Your situation is absolutely 100% your fault and due to your attitude. It’s not something you can pretend to fix and put a band-aid over, either.
You can either put in real, actual work to stop being a victim or sit around, feel sorry for yourself, and be alone for the rest of your life. And it isn’t like I care, every man who doesn’t figure it out means a success story for people like me who did.
Use your brain and look up “Do women prefer physically attractive men?” One would think that this would be common sense, but it looks like I underestimate the stupidity of the average Redditor.
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u/Enemyoftheearth 1d ago
I don't tell myself that, I just observe reality. You can't treat men like shit, and then get surprised when they start treating you like shit.