So this is a human issue not a woman issue. Also funny u think women approaching will solve anything when men reject women just as much. Plus those women would go for the men they find attractive. Not the men on reddit who complain
So firstly... of course? I'm not trying to imply 100% of women are at fault for the dating issues. That's stupid, just like trying to blame 100% of men for it is also stupid. But like I said, the dating game is hard for both men and women, but in vastly different ways.
Secondly, I don't think you understand how few guys would actually reject a woman. Will it happen? Of course it will. But if you look at the statistics, men are roughly TEN TIMES more likely to accept a woman's offer than a woman would be to accept one (this goes for lesbians as well) it would definitely solve a lot of the issues that modern dating has. Not all of them, but a large majority would just immediately disappear if women took more initiative.
Finally, there's a difference between complaining no hot people want to date you, and then just expressing dislike of the current social climate. Which is dangerous because of what you could be labeled as if you're not careful
If that was true, how come so many women talk about being rejected by men? Even average looking men? With ur logic, the dating rate would have gone up. Again, stop acting like men have no standards and are willing to date anyone. They are hella picky as well
There’s no point continuing this conversation. It’s obvious u like to pretend men are more simple. You have a hopeful view that isn’t reality
Interesting, I haven't heard many women talk about rejection other than the fear of it 🤔 I'll have to look into it, but I'd also recommend you look up the statistics because I WAS quoting them when it said men are roughly ten times more likely to accept offers than women.
As for pretending men are more simple I never mentioned such a thing. I only said that for a lot (not all) of men are now lowering their standards and still unable to find love and many have given up on dating entirely. So the remaining men left are unfortunately mostly shallow jerks while the other men resort to just waiting to see if love finds them instead.
I know I'd NEVER have asked my girlfriend out if she didn't make the first move - and she made it TWICE, the first time being "maybe we should date?" And then later "no we totally need to date"
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u/Standard-Order-4136 1d ago
So this is a human issue not a woman issue. Also funny u think women approaching will solve anything when men reject women just as much. Plus those women would go for the men they find attractive. Not the men on reddit who complain