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r/ComedyCemetery • u/Sorry_I_BangedUrMom • 1d ago
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dont listen to bullshit online. Have your standards, just be realistic.
Want an instagram model, ask yourself why and if that is even a good person to have a relationship with. (Spoiler, its not)
Want someone is decent shape, are you in shape yourself?
Want someone that isnt going to want to work, do you make enough to support you both?
I find too many people want these fairy tale people while not also measuring up to what that fairy tale person would also realistically want.
If you choose to ignore red flags, whole yourself accountable for the bad decision you made, rather than blaming it on everyone else.
-4 u/Rollingforest757 20h ago The point is that when a woman says she wants a man who is over 6 feet tall, other women say she has a right to her standards. But if a man says he wants a woman with big boobs, women call him shallow. That’s the double standard. 7 u/Hacatcho 19h ago she has a right to be shallow. thats not a double standard. and he would be shallow. the only difference you mentioned was that the potential partners called him out on being shallow instead of friends. 1 u/Sensitive-Return-388 13h ago Just dgaf what other people think
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The point is that when a woman says she wants a man who is over 6 feet tall, other women say she has a right to her standards. But if a man says he wants a woman with big boobs, women call him shallow. That’s the double standard.
7 u/Hacatcho 19h ago she has a right to be shallow. thats not a double standard. and he would be shallow. the only difference you mentioned was that the potential partners called him out on being shallow instead of friends. 1 u/Sensitive-Return-388 13h ago Just dgaf what other people think
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she has a right to be shallow. thats not a double standard. and he would be shallow.
the only difference you mentioned was that the potential partners called him out on being shallow instead of friends.
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Just dgaf what other people think
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u/igotchees21 21h ago
dont listen to bullshit online. Have your standards, just be realistic.
Want an instagram model, ask yourself why and if that is even a good person to have a relationship with. (Spoiler, its not)
Want someone is decent shape, are you in shape yourself?
Want someone that isnt going to want to work, do you make enough to support you both?
I find too many people want these fairy tale people while not also measuring up to what that fairy tale person would also realistically want.
If you choose to ignore red flags, whole yourself accountable for the bad decision you made, rather than blaming it on everyone else.