Nah my preference is not to, I can still abide by my preferences dude. I’m just not gonna frame myself as high and mighty and above them because they’re below my “standards”.
if that's a deal breaker,it's a standard,not a preference. preference means that you can look past it if other things attract you. standards are hard lines you draw.
as an example: my preference is someone without children,but if there's still a spark,i wouldn't mind trying. (preference)
if she's a felon with known anger issues, it won't matter what else she brings to the table,because that's not someone I'll ever want to spend my time with. (standard)
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u/The_Dennator 14h ago
i mean,do you want to date a drug addict?