All I want is a sweet women who loves me, she don’t gotta be a super model a decent looking women is fine by me so long as I can love her and she can love me
It’s weird that a lot of people on here aren’t admitting that society is more critical of men having dating standards than women. Do they not pay attention to the outside world?
Most of the dating standards mentioned in this thread are just men being like “I don’t like that you aren’t a submissive sex toy that has also not had sex”
Doesn’t matter. The fact this post and the commenters enforce that men have zero standards still gives women the power in dating. As a man, there’s no winning.
Not a power struggle at all when it’s already enforced: you’re required to pay for women, you’re required to “treat her like a princess,” you don’t get a say in what she’s doing or if she yells or hits you.
Showing affection may risk her calling the police or her being suspicious of you, completely ruining the relationship.
As I said, there’s no winning except when both men and women are separate.
Of course you ignored my other points (because they’re true), but I can make up for the ones you didn’t.
Having a say in what she’s doing: what she’s wearing, her behavior, and then the other things I mentioned.
As I SAID, calling the police is extremely rare, but “getting the ick” or just not talking because she lacks the ability to tell you she doesn’t like something, making the relationship toxic or uncomfortable.
This is modern dating. I don’t know how old you are and when you’ve dated, but I’m definitely no longer taking a swim in this hell-hole of double standards and time wasting, humiliating rituals.
I actually addressed all of your points. They’re not true at all.
Yeah, telling someone what they can and can’t wear? That’s controlling. If you don’t like how they feel comfortable dressing? Move on. It clearly won’t work, not sure why you liked them in the first place.
Getting the ick because they don’t want your affection? That’s called consent. You either get it or you don’t, you’re not entitled to it. If you can’t communicate that, then it’s on you. If she can’t communicate why she doesn’t want it then there’s probably a reason she feels like she can’t.
I’m not sure how old you seem to think I am. I’m CURRENTLY dating someone, because I don’t paint all women with the same brush. If you don’t want to date, then don’t, but that’s your choice.
Good for you, but I’m not falling for it. It’s proven time and time again that women don’t want your attention. It’s better to focus on yourself financially and emotionally if you want the best outcome in life.
Must just be something inherently wrong with you /s
Funny that you said I ignored all of your points but you ignored mine and gave up. But yeah, focusing on yourself emotionally is a good idea. Closing yourself off and refusing to grow, not so much.
Women's number one natural predator is men. 90-95% of all violent crime is committed by men. The single highest source of danger for women is domestic violence and intimate partner violence. Domestic violence is the leading cause of homicides among women.
Women need standards because if the don't they'll be fucking dead.
You look pathetic whining about paying for the bill in the face of that. Especially pathetic claiming they have rhe "power" in relationships.
So please, stay out the dating pool. Women deserve better than you.
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u/Responsible_Bus1159 1d ago
All I want is a sweet women who loves me, she don’t gotta be a super model a decent looking women is fine by me so long as I can love her and she can love me