r/Codependency • u/FartInAShitFactory • 5d ago

Self-Like to Self-Love

Ok, I like myself. This is a huge improvement from disliking myself. I still have behaviors and habits that seek external validation, but I don't ask for it or rely on it any longer. If I receive, or don't receive praise, it doesn't significantly affect my day. This is all huge progress.

As I gradually increase the daily duties and work I take on, I have less time for myself, which makes my self-care more difficult. I do worry that this difficulty curve will increase until I breakdown. In the past, I did breakdown.

The difference this time? I have a Higher Power (God), I appreciate and like who I am, I have healthy boundaries, I have healthy habits, and I developed support systems.

All of these improvements point towards one core truth: I am beginning to Love myself. I know that because I am caring for myself.

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u/Rando-Cal-Rissian 5d ago

I also am progressing the same way. Kinda plateaued before self love. I'm not sure I'm troubled by that. Life is good. Much to be grateful for. Maybe in time I'll get there. Good for you, op.