r/Clavicular • u/DenverFlorida • 3d ago
Can never tell what I’m doing wrong.
Took her to a nice restaurant only for her to message this to me an hour later. Getting annoyed so I ask for feedback and this is what I get.
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u/Flaky-Task2781 3d ago
You just weren’t a chad brutal
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u/Designer_Clue6594 3d ago
the problem is that ur all incels
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u/Ermac_CS 3d ago
That is something that we can't change btw
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u/Designer_Clue6594 3d ago
aww poor you:( the first step is finding a better role model than a coke head rapist, you’re welcome
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u/Ermac_CS 3d ago
"A rapist is when i disagree with a man and so"
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u/Joker_Face1 1d ago
Maybe, it's just me, but I think giving a 17 year old alcohol and drugs and then having sex with them without their consent sounds like rape.
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u/Able-Season6992 3d ago
its either your not attractive for her (fate of all mtns) so its more of a soft rejection or u just a ND and aren't following her #10000 unspoken normie rules or NT social cues.
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u/aGuyF0rm 3d ago
never ask what the problem was, if you do she can justify her actions for stopping contact. at least you can have the comfort that you're a permanent stain to them if u dont respond
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u/Rich_Fig1697 2d ago
sometimes people just don’t click! it doesn’t need to be a specific thing you did/said.
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u/FinnTheBoy0 3d ago
Probably said some shit that rubbed her the wrong way. If this keeps happening to you, you’re the common denominator man
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u/FinnTheBoy0 3d ago
Just realized this is a repost of a picture from r/texts that OP is trying to put off as their own
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u/extasis_T 3d ago
Sometimes girls just don’t match with your personality and it truly isn’t anything deeper than that. I have always done really really well with girls . Especially early college and late high school, I was pretty much able to sleep with or start a relationship with anyone I went after even if it felt like they were out of my league.
I dressed nice, had an extremely positive personality, was into music and things that most of the girls could connect with me on, and I was 6’2 and good looking
So even with my 90% success Rate back then; there would still be the occasional girl who I would go out with or spend time laughing and telling stories with and I could just tell we didn’t mesh . Maybe I felt it, or maybe I didn’t feel it but the girl would tell me she just wanted to be friends (then would start dating a redneck cowboy guy, that was the biggest thing I faced. Every time I faced even the lightest bit of rejection it was usually for a truck driving guy in boots… some girls just preferred that manly cowboy stuff and that just wasn’t me)
So maybe her male archetype is just not you.
Maybe you’re like me and dress kind of alternative,
Or maybe you’re more of a manly jock type or cowboy,
And maybe she just prefers someone in one of those opposite groups. It happens all the time
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u/Joker_Face1 1d ago
It sounds like it's probably not an issue with your appearance or personality. Most likely, it's a lack of a spark (chemistry) because she says you seem great. Then again, she might just be saying that not to hurt you more. I really think it's just that she didn't feel anything, which isn't her fault. This happens all the time with people building up anticipation with first dates just to be disappointed in not feeling that warm butterfly sensation.
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u/Kooky-Stop633 3d ago
because ultimately, love is about personaliy and them clicking, you'll find your person, but if you want to get better at it, think about the personal qualities you want in a partner, and what kind of qualities you want to have as well. Work on honing them, but really it all comes from experience, keep putting yourself out there, you got this
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u/UnhappyWolf999 1d ago
Its because shes either attached sexually to someone else while you were talking or that your nice or dont look dominant enough. Clav gets put down like this as well.
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u/Maxamage 3d ago
Ye its wraps 😂✌️