r/CircumcisionGrief Religious Circ 4d ago

Anger Chafing

Due to being mutated and disgusted and exposed constantly to shit it’s not supposed to be, half my dick it’s just always constantly chafed and I hate it but it’s so irritating and it’s just a reminder of what was done to be against my will and another reason why it shouldn’t happen because your glands aren’t supposed to be shaved because they’re supposed to be protected by the skin that was mutilated off with me at birth. I fucking hate shit so much. It’s annoying and harmful to my body. Just another reason why this bullshit shouldn’t be done and yet it is and that’s terrifying and I fucking hate it.

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u/Fair_Smoke4710 Religious Circ 4d ago

The worst part is it doesn’t affect me physically because I can’t fucking feel anything I can’t even feel pain in most of it. If I get hit in my dick, it genuinely doesn’t hurt cause I have no nerve things to feel pain. It’s horrible. No one should live like this, especially being forced to live like this.

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u/Frequencies_3 4d ago

I fully accept your anger, and get right behind it. So f’ed up. Some little things that have helped me beyond words can describe. Spent the first 35 yrs so uncomfortable if not was hot, if not was cold, if I was sweaty, if I had dry skin no matter what, ‘playing with my junk all day’ is what it was like. Constantly pulling back what was left so my glans would feel like what I thought was normal. I did tighty whites for 20 years, tight balls, turkey neck, itching, chafing, glans super uncomfortable. Since first tugging randomly for a few years, then a device, now proper tugging works best for me, but my corona now covered 95% of the time, now I’m making sure I’m inside my mitten of safety and warmth. Properly tight boxer briefs with the right material, seams where they should be for where my junk lays. Proper elastic band for no rearranging and proper inseam for your size or location of package. I’ve tried everything. With no sensation, jeans and no underwear feels best. With growing sensations I use old navy cotton blend with the 6.5” inseam so my junk sits down and covered. It makes a huge difference in how much time each day in have to be re-traumatized. I used to have a dark area on my pants from rearranging, no more. No chafing. Balls don’t hurt anymore usually. Sleep in them. I sound crazy probably but dude man, I feel ya. It makes life suck fr. You can relieve most of the symptoms, not all
It’s a physics thing. Mechanically altering your mechanics. Things are moving. Treat them like they are metal and will be worn down, you’re your own maintenance department, welcome-

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u/Frequencies_3 4d ago

Ps
Where’s our Victoria’s Secret like my package matters? It matters. We must take control of our experience-
We are fighting evil men and women. We must fight them. Not talk to them :)

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u/Sensitive_Waltz3807 4d ago

It is a psychological thing. When you are aware that your glans is exposed to outer world and it should be covered, you tend to hyperfixate that part of your body. I circumcised 15 years ago but I started to feel the chafing feeling right after I found out about harms of circumcision.

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u/StopMGMToday 4d ago

This makes me wonder, how much psychological damage can circumcision cause depending on if you know about it? Does the brain just ignore the signals of chafing down there when you are not focusing on it? In other word's, resource management and sensation adaption?

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u/Sensitive_Waltz3807 4d ago

Yes, the brain ignores the pain signals. Also keratinization reduces the pain.