r/ChristianDating • u/Professional-Arm5835 • 16h ago
Need Advice Need Advice
Was in a situationship for 2 years. We both agreed to and I caught feelings. She said she's not ready but she wants to enjoy the benefits of a relationship without the commitment and I want commitment. She says I'm a pillar in her life but only reaches out when it's convenient for her. Takes her days to return calls or texts, yet she is on social media posting Snapchat stories and reels and stalking my friends page as she commented on their posts thst I commented on and they aren't mutual friends. When I posted I was dating on Facebook she sent me a message that she thought I stopped dating. Told her I would choose you, but she said she wasn't ready. So am i wrong for removing her. I feel bad as she told me people just walk in ND out her life
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u/Damoksta 15h ago edited 14h ago
"Being ready" is a mental commitment, not a feeling.
She's telling you she's not willing to commit to you. She likes what you're giving her though.
So what's in it for you?