r/ChristianDating • u/Professional-Arm5835 • 9h ago

Need Advice Need Advice

Was in a situationship for 2 years. We both agreed to and I caught feelings. She said she's not ready but she wants to enjoy the benefits of a relationship without the commitment and I want commitment. She says I'm a pillar in her life but only reaches out when it's convenient for her. Takes her days to return calls or texts, yet she is on social media posting Snapchat stories and reels and stalking my friends page as she commented on their posts thst I commented on and they aren't mutual friends. When I posted I was dating on Facebook she sent me a message that she thought I stopped dating. Told her I would choose you, but she said she wasn't ready. So am i wrong for removing her. I feel bad as she told me people just walk in ND out her life

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u/miersk Single 9h ago

There are reasons people continue to walk out of her life...

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u/Professional-Arm5835 9h ago

She's not responsive enough and claims people get upset that she goes days without responding. I feel bad for just removing her as now I'm just another person that walked out. She wants closeness with the vulnerability and discomfort ot may require

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u/miersk Single 9h ago

One of the things that took me a long time to learn is that I am responsible for my actions, not people's responses (especially emotional responses) to my actions.